Pat A. "Wolf" Stotlemeyer

Pat A. "Wolf" Stotlemeyer obituary, Wentzville, MO

Pat A. "Wolf" Stotlemeyer

Pat Stotlemeyer Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Pitman Funeral Homes & Cremation Services - Wentzville Chapel on Jan. 27, 2026.
Patricia A. Stotlemeyer (née: Wolf) of Wentzville, Missouri, passed away on January 24, 2026 at the age of 73. She is survived by her beloved husband, Walter Stotlemeyer of Wentzville, Missouri; daughter, Kimberly (Steven) Lovell of Clarksville, MO; grandchildren, Jacob and Hailey; She is preceded in death by her father, John Wolf, mother, Dorothy Wolf (née: Strain).

Pat was born in St. Louis County, Missouri. She grew up in Webster Groves and West St. Louis County.

Pat attended Drury College in Springfield, Missouri and completed her education with a Bachelors Degree in Special Education from the University of Missouri, Columbia. She was a legacy sister In the Zeta Tau Alpha sorority, and made lasting friends to date with girls she lived with at Mizzou.

Upon marriage to Walt they lived in Kirkwood, Ballwin and Wentzville, Missouri. Pat and Walt celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary in 2025.

Pat taught school for the St. Louis County Special School District in her early career path. She later managed her father's real estate business office until her daughter Kimberly was born at which time she chose to be a stay-at-home-mother. Pat volunteerd and helped in most of Kim's classrooms growing up. In Kim's later school years Pat stayed supportive of all her activites, and built friendships with all of Kim's friends.

Pat enjoyed vacations in Hawaii, Bahamas Islands, South Carolina and Florida. In her spare time Pat loved to work at creating floral arrangements, painting, and decorating gifts.

Pat was a long time member of the Welcome Wagon/Welcome Club in West St. Louis County where she made so many wonderful friends, and enjoyed playing in different cards, dominos, and bunko groups in addition to working annual charity projects.

Pat grew up in the Lutheran Church and with Walt, belonged to Glendale Lutheran, and St. John's Lutheran Churches.

Pat's greatest love has been her grandchildren. Jacob and Hailey. She followed and attended their activites whenever possible.

She will be dearly missed by all who knew and loved her.

Memorials: In honor of Pat, memorials may be made to: St. Judes Children Hospital, or Mercy Hospice, in care of Pitman Funeral Home 1545 Wentzville Parkway, Missouri 63385.

Family is being served by Pitman Funeral Home, Wentzville.

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