Patrick S. Calandra

Patrick S. Calandra obituary, Rome, NY

Patrick S. Calandra

Patrick Calandra Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Strong-Burns & Sprock Funeral Home - Rome on Oct. 8, 2025.

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Patrick S. Calandra
Patrick S. Calandra, 55, of Rome, passed away at his home on October 2, 2025, following a brief illness. He was born on December 19, 1969, the son of Peter Calandra and Jeanne Keeler. Pat was a graduate of Rome Free Academy and continued his education at SUNY Cortland. He will be remembered as a talented athlete who excelled in hockey and was apart of the 1985-86 & 1987-88 RFA State Champions. Pat was employed at the Mohawk Correctional Facility as a nursing assistant. He was formerly united in marriage to Jennifer (LaPointe) Destito.
He is survived by his cherished daughter, Peyton Calandra of Rome; his beloved mother, Jeanne Albrecht and her husband James Albrecht of Westmoreland; stepmother, Lorraine McCormick and her husband Richard Hoey of Rome; his "favorite"sister, Wendy Hauk of Rome; two brothers and sisters-in- law, Peter and Denise Calandra of Pennsylvania, Jason and Amy Calandra of Rome; nieces and nephews, Eric and Jeanna Hauk, Peter and Nicholas Calandra, Aria and Mason Calandra. Pat was predeceased by his father, Peter Calandra and brother-in-law, Joseph Hauk.
In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to R-Cats at P.O. Box 341, Rome, NY 13442 or Rome Youth Hockey Association at 500 W. Embargo St, Rome, NY 13440, in memory of Patrick.
Funeral services are private and there are no calling hours. Arrangements by Strong-Burns & Sprock Funeral Home 7751 Merrick Road, Rome.

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October 16, 2025

Michael Yoxall posted to the memorial.

October 12, 2025

Bobby Verdgeline posted to the memorial.

October 9, 2025

Chip Travis posted to the memorial.

Michael Yoxall

October 16, 2025

Rest easy Patty ! My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

Bobby Verdgeline

October 12, 2025

So so sorry for the loss, l knew Pat for years we went to school together. REST IN PEACE MY FRIEND

Chip Travis

October 9, 2025

So saddened to learn of Pat's passing. Many fond memories from our youth playing hockey. Condolences to his family

Adam

October 9, 2025

So sorry to hear of your passing Pat. We went through orientation and training together at Mohawk. I looked forward to our paths crossing on your way in to work and on my way out. May your soul take a soft footed journey.

Kurt Parry

October 9, 2025

Rest in peace my friend. My condolences to all of Pat's friends and family.

Patricia Meade

October 8, 2025

Prayers sent for God’s comfort during this difficult time

Patricia Meade. Jen´s Mom.

October 8, 2025

So sorry to hear of Pat´s passing. He was such a nice young man. Always welcoming and respectful.

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