Patrick Thomas Exley

Patrick Thomas Exley obituary, Saint Paul, MN

Patrick Thomas Exley

Patrick Exley Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Willwerscheid Funeral Home & Cremation Service - West-Heights Chapel on Mar. 19, 2025.
A wonderful brother, uncle and friend
Patrick (Pat) Exley, 62, passed away at home after a brief illness on August 15, 2024. Pat had five siblings, was born and raised in West St. Paul and was a long-time resident of Eagan. After graduating from Henry Sibley High School in 1980, Pat pursued a major in computer science from the University of Minnesota and held a long-time career as a computer programmer, retiring from Dell in 2023.
An avid biker, Pat was a member of the Twin Cities Bicycle Club and enjoyed leading and joining many group rides around the cities as well as solo trips exploring the many scenic bike trails throughout Minnesota and the country. Pat loved nature and enjoyed the peacefulness of hiking through the woods, boating and kayaking area lakes.
Pat's greatest passion was music -- singing songs, playing guitar, jamming with fellow musician friends, and enjoying the talent of numerous musicians at concerts and venues throughout the cities. If there was music, you would find Pat. He loved his family and friends, sharing great times together to watch football or take in a concert and other event.
Pat was a wonderful brother and uncle and had great compassion and understanding for those less fortunate. He will be deeply missed by many.
Preceded in death by parents Lorraine (Quinn) and Richard O. Exley.
Survived by siblings Mark (Jean), Peg, Leo (Wanda), Rick (Susie) and Tony; Nieces Christine (Stephen) and Anna; Nephews David (Ruth) and Lance (Hannah); Great Nieces Claire and Brooke; Great Nephews William, Daniel and Quinn and many other relatives and friends.
Join us for a celebration of Pat's life on Tuesday, September 10, 2024, 4 – 7 pm, at Willwerscheid Funeral Home – West-Heights Chapel, 235 Wentworth Ave W, West St. Paul. Casual attire suggested. In lieu of flowers, donations preferred to a charity of your choice.

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