Patrick John Gillespie

Patrick John Gillespie obituary, Darien, IL

Patrick John Gillespie

Patrick Gillespie Obituary

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Patrick John Gillespie, a U.S. Air Force Veteran and pillar of the Chicago community, passed away peacefully on January 10, 2025, at the age of 91. Born on December 2, 1933, in Chicago, Illinois, Patrick's life was marked by his unwavering dedication to his family, his career, and his community.
Patrick was the loving husband of the late Joan Marie Gillespie, and together they built a life filled with love and laughter. He was a beloved father to Patrick K. (Cindy) Gillespie, Brian (Debbie) Gillespie, and Shari Gillespie. His role as a father was one he cherished deeply, guiding his children with a gentle hand and a generous heart. As a cherished grandfather to Courtney (Elmer) Monaco, Steve (Lauren) Gillespie, Andrea Gillespie, Christine Gillespie, and Kelly Gillespie, Patrick instilled values of kindness and generosity. His joy only multiplied with the arrival of his great-grandchildren Zak Monaco, Hailey Monaco, Brady Monaco, Blake Gillespie, and Easton Gillespie, who will remember him for his thoughtful nature and warm spirit. He is also survived by many nieces and nephews who cherished their time with their uncle. Patrick was predeceased by his sister, the late Jean Mann, with whom he shared a lifetime of memories and a bond that remained strong throughout their lives.
Patrick was a graduate of Mt. Carmel High School who professionally dedicated 70 years to a successful career as a Financial Planner and Insurance Broker. His expertise and integrity in his field earned him the respect and trust of his colleagues and clients alike. Patrick's commitment to service extended beyond his professional life as he was an active member of the Chicago Lawn Sertoma for 56 years and the Darien Lions Club for nearly 50 years. His civic engagement was a testament to his belief in giving back to the community that had given him so much.
Patrick's interests were as diverse as they were passionate. An avid golfer, he found joy in the game and the friendships forged on the greens. His love for reading kept him engaged with the world and its ever-changing landscape. Ballroom dancing was a delightful escape that he enjoyed following the passing of his beloved wife Joan. Patrick took great pride in his commitment to the city of Darien, including his role as a former Darien City Alderman and recipient of the Darien Citizen of the Year Award. His efforts were instrumental in the development of the Darien community, helping to establish the local library and police station, landmarks that will serve as lasting tributes to his commitment to civic duty.
Powers Lake held a special place in Patrick's heart as his happy place, a sanctuary where he found peace and solace. It was here that he reflected on the beauty of life and the importance of cherishing every moment.
Described by those who knew him as kind, generous, and thoughtful, Patrick's legacy is one of love and service. His gentle demeanor and willingness to help others left an indelible mark on the hearts of all who had the pleasure of knowing him.
In honor of Pat's remarkable life, a visitation will be held on Tuesday, January 14, 2025, from 3:00 – 8:00 pm at Modell Funeral Home, 7710 S. Cass Ave., Darien. Family and friends are invited to return to the funeral home on Wednesday, January 15, 2025, starting at 8:15 am for additional visitation time until 9:15 am. Prayers will begin at 9:15 am followed by a procession to Our Lady of Peace Church for a 10:00 am Mass. Procession to Clarendon Hills Cemetery will immediately follow Mass.
In lieu of flowers, donations to Sertoma Star Services 4343 W. 123rd St., Alsip or Darien Lions Club, 1702 Plainfield Road, Darien are appreciated. For funeral information: 630-852-3595 or www.modelldarien.com.
To send flowers to the family or plant a tree in memory of Patrick, please visit our floral store.
Modell Funeral Home & Cremation Services - Darien

7710 South Cass Avenue, Darien, IL 60561

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