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Patrick Michael Hapeman
1955 - 2025
BORN
1955
DIED
2025
Patrick Hapeman Obituary
Born: January 25, 1955 in Chicago, IL
Died: December 4, 2025 in Woodstock, IL
Pat was the son of James and Jean Hapeman. Raised in Park Ridge. He then made his home in Woodstock where his greatest joy was raising his six children. He enjoyed nature and found comfort in the companionship of animals throughout his life. He will be remembered as a loving, supportive, and devoted son, brother, husband, father, and grandfather. He was preceded in death by his father; mother; brother Jim Jr, brother James Goodale, and sister Judy. He is survived by his beloved wife Sherry; his children Matthew (Melissa), Brett (Kaleigh), Jeffrey (Aide), Jennifer, Stephanie, Rebecca (Chris); his grandchildren Nathan, Isaac, Lyra, Charlie; brother Vaughn; sisters Mary, Sue, Bea; several nieces and nephews; his cherished dog Dallas, and many spoiled grand-paws.
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Memories and Condolences
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Vaughn
Yesterday
Brothers don't always see eye to eye andI'm sorry for my part of our past differences. I truly hope you find the peace you deserve.
Elizabeth pilarski
Yesterday
My deepest sympathy .Pat was a good man and taken away to soon.may God bless his family!
Fred Spitzer
Yesterday
So sorry to hear of this loss. My thoughts are with all of you during this difficult time.
Mary Clegg
December 10, 2025
Your sorrow is felt by everyone whose Pat's life touched. He was a wonderful husband, father, grandfather and so much more. A great cook too! Gardner, animal caretaker, holiday decorator, neighbor, just too much to mention! Your grief is shared by many. Love to Sherry & family.
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Kathy Adams
December 8, 2025
Kathy Adams
December 8, 2025
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
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