Paul Richard Cole Sr.

Paul Richard Cole Sr. obituary

Paul Richard Cole Sr.

Paul Cole Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Brownlie & Maxwell Funeral Service & Crematory on Sep. 17, 2025.

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Paul Richard Cole Sr. 1947 – 2025

Originally from Long Branch, New Jersey and moved to Melbourne, Florida in 2016, passed away peacefully at home.

Survived By

Paul is lovingly remembered by his wife of 55 years, Wandy, and their three children:

Melisa Anne Cole Hofer (Rob Sr.)

Children: Darrin, Robert Jr. (Andrea), Heather (Katie)

Paula Cole Thorne (significant other Gary Rice, and the late Randy A. Thorne Sr.)

Children: Tiffany, Randy Jr.

Paul Richard Cole Jr. (Tiffany)

Children: Briceson, Julia-Ann

Predeceased by his parents and brother

Marshall and Dorothy Cole

Marshall Jr.

Also survived by his sisters:

Virginia Beach (Ronald)

Dorothy Hacker

Paul also leaves behind many cherished family members and friends.

A Life of Service

Paul worked as a carpenter with his father (Cole Builders) and eventually took over the business. He also worked as a truck driver. He proudly served in the United States Air Force.

A Man of Faith

Paul was a longtime member of First Assembly of God Church in Shrewsbury, NJ, serving as a door greeter and usher. After moving to Florida, he joined Lighthouse Assembly of God, where he served as a deacon, usher/greeter, communion preparer, and custodian. He especially loved Thursday prayer meetings and breakfast with his pastor.

Community & Passions

Paul joined the Elks Lodge 742 in 1983, serving as:

Inner Guard (1986–1987)

Exalted Ruler (1993–1994)

Trustee (1994–1999)

Honorary Lifetime Member

He was also active in the American Legion, first in Deal, NJ, and later in Post 81, Melbourne, where he enjoyed Friday dinners and fellowship.

Paul loved communing with the Lord, doing his daily devotions, deer hunting, fishing, golfing, taking long walks with his wife, enjoyed working in his yard, watching football and NASCAR. He was a proud diehard fan of the Pittsburgh Steelers, and favorite NASCAR drivers included Rusty Wallace, Tony Stewart, and Martin Truex Jr. He also enjoyed watching the old westerns and FOX News.

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