Paul F Fachini

Paul F Fachini obituary

Paul F Fachini

Paul Fachini Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Spencer Funeral Home - East Hampton on Oct. 6, 2025.
Paul "Nilo" F. Fachini, 66, of East Hampton, CT beloved husband of forty-two years to Lisa (Ladyga) Fachini tragically passed away Wednesday, October 1st at Hartford Hospital after sustaining life threatening injuries from a pedestrian accident.

Paul was born May 21,1959 in Bristol, CT and was raised in the Forestville section. He was the son of the late Nilo and Margaret (Conroy) Fachini.

He was a resident of East Hampton for over thirty six years and a parishioner of St. Patrick Church in East Hampton as a 4th Degree Knight of Columbus St. John Paul II Parish Council 6190. Paul loved spending time with his family and friends, cooking, fishing and gardening. He could often be found on his porch listening to music, reading a book, making pickles or in the backyard in his woodworking shop. Paul also enjoyed the game of baseball and was a lifelong NY Yankees fan.

Paul spent his career in construction at Manafort Brothers retiring just four years ago as a concrete superintendent. Paul was extremely dedicated, hard working, and dependable. Paul was a loving husband, father, grandfather, and friend. He was very generous with his time, always willing to lend a helping hand. Paul was a jack of all trades and nothing made him happier than being able to pass down his skills to his children and grandchildren.

Paul is survived by his wife Lisa, his children Angela Hruska (Buddy) of Colchester, Allie Fachini of East Hampton, Neil Fachini (Maggie) of Port Jefferson Station NY, Kelsey Fachini of East Hampton, his brother John Fachini (Theresa), three sisters Margaret Fachini, Kathi Knapp (Steven), Bernadette Dunn (Bob) and his six beloved grandchildren Mason, Max, Harper, Declan, Lilly, and Shane. Paul is also survived by several family members and close friends.

A Funeral Liturgy will be celebrated on Friday October 10th at 11AM at St. John Paul II Parish of St. Patrick Church 47 W. High St. East Hampton. There will be no calling hours. In lieu of flowers memorial donations may be made to The Ayer Neuroscience Institute at Hartford Hospital. https://giving.hartfordhospital.org/tribute/. The family expresses their deepest gratitude to the Emergency Department and the Neurotrauma ICU at Hartford Hospital. To leave online condolences please visit www.spencerfuneralhomeinc.com.

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October 9, 2025

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October 9, 2025

Maura & Joseph (Moran, Ireland) posted to the memorial.

October 7, 2025

Ann and David McLellan posted to the memorial.

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Maura & Joseph (Moran, Ireland)

October 9, 2025

Offering our deepest sympathy to Paul's wife Lisa and their family, to Bernadette, Margaret, Cathy, John and their families at this very sad time. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. May Paul rest in peace.

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Ann and Dave

October 7, 2025

Dear Lisa and family,
We have a lot of great memories of you, Paul, and friends. You are in our thoughts.
With Love,
Ann and Dave

Rachael Bertels

October 6, 2025

Dear Allie and Family,
I had the pleasure of meeting Paul only a couple of times but he struck me as a caring, loving man. I am so sad for the giant hole he leaves behind in the lives of all those who are left in the wake of this tragedy. May God comfort and sustain his precious family in ways that can only be provided by God's loving hand! Praying for the Fachini family

Gerry Celotto

October 6, 2025

Dearest Angela,
My heart is filled with sadness for you, your babies, your mom and family. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Sending virtual hugs filled with compassion.

Walter & Sonja

October 6, 2025

So very sorry for your loss

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