Paul Russell Granger

Paul Russell Granger obituary

Paul Russell Granger

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Paul Granger Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Clary Memorial Funeral & Cremation Services, LLC on Aug. 29, 2025.

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Paul Russell Granger left this world on August 19th, 2025. Born on July 23rd, 1944, to Edith Marshall and Raymond Granger in Kewanee, Illinois, Paul graduated from Viroqua High School in 1965 and attended the University of Wisconsin – La Crosse where he received a Bachelor of Science in Sociology in 1971. He also received a master's degree from the University of Stout. Paul worked as a Counselor for the Division of Vocational Rehabilitation of the State of Wisconsin for more than 30 years and was well respected for his work. His colleagues described him as a kind and caring counselor who served the State of Wisconsin in a quiet and competent manner. Paul found a deep sense of purpose in caring for those who needed him. Over the years he acquired various rescue dogs, and he lovingly provided home cooked meals to them twice daily. In the last years of his life, he was the primary caretaker for his mother, Edith Marshall, as she aged to 105 years and could do little on her own. Until the end he helped his mom take care of her menagerie of farm animals. After his mom's passing, her dogs became his. And, importantly, almost forty years ago, in a plot twist his younger self never would have expected, Paul started a brief romantic relationship that ended with him falling in love with us, four children at the time, who he took shared custody of for the rest of our childhoods. His love for us superseded traditional notions of family. We are so enormously lucky to have felt that love unconditionally. Paul was a scholar. He converted a historic one room schoolhouse into his retirement home, and every inch was covered with evidence of his myriad of interests, each of which he was well-read in. Bookshelves were stuffed with books in every genre, but particularly non-fiction. NASA photos of far-away galaxies surrounded the living space. Historical relics from modern history, early human history, and even some that pre-date human history, were carefully displayed. And nature was interwoven into his décor. Paper wasp nests hung from above and cattails he harvested were strategically positioned as accents. Through his love Paul instilled in us, his children, a sense of wonder and curiosity about the world, which we will carry with us to the end. We will never again look up at the stars without thinking about him. We will never again hear frogs chirping or happen upon a snake or turtle without feeling his presence. Paul is predeceased by his mother, Edith Marshall, his brothers, Thomas Granger and Wayne Thompson, and his childhood best friend, Tyler Coyote. Memories of Paul are cherished by his sisters, Beverly Jean (Jack) Kramer and Linda Larson, his mom's life partner, Wesley Novy, his kids, Mena and Jeff Hale, Rakhi Nikhanj and Jared Harbort, Soma Nikhanj and Eli Wollenzien, and Amar and Kristen Nikhanj, his five grandchildren, Olivia, Benjamin, Grayson, Reena, and Zara, and his friend, Kenneth Engstrand. Paulie, as we refer to him, is so very deeply loved and missed. Friends and family are invited to join us in celebrating Paul's life on September 27th, 2025 from 12:00-3:00 PM at Riversend in Ontario, Wisconsin. The Clary Memorial Funeral Home is assisting the family with arrangements. www.clarymemorialfuneralhome.com .

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Upcoming Events

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Celebration of Life

12:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m.

Riversend

314 Main St., Ontario, WI 54651

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