Paula Grimaldi Reardon

Paula Grimaldi Reardon obituary, North Brunswick, NJ

Paula Grimaldi Reardon

Paula Reardon Obituary

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Paula Grimaldi Reardon, 65 years, of North Brunswick, passed away on Tuesday December 3, 2019 at her residence. She was born in Jersey City, the daughter of the late Joseph and the late RosaRia (née Cascino) Grimaldi. and lived in New Brunswick before moving to North Brunswick several years ago. Paula was an artistic photographer who was famously known as "Pulsating Paula" by Biker Lifestyle magazine. During the 1980's and 1990's, she photographed New Jersey Bikers. According to Biker Magazine, her photos "bleed with honesty,passion and a high level of respect for her subjects". She also was published in Tattoo magazine. Paula was very sweet and loving. She was the "Girl With a Golden Heart". Surviving is her husband Douglas Reardon; her brother and sister-in-law, Joseph and Kathy Grimaldi of Leland, North Carolina, her brother Michael Grimaldi of New Brunswick; her nephews Joey, Nicolas and niece Kristyn, and the Arena, Baldini, Cascino, Laiacona and Grimaldi families. As per Paula's request, there will be no funeral service. Contributions may be made in Paula's name to St. Jude's Children's Hospital, www.stjude.org. You may sign the obituary condolence online "guestbook" at www.crabiel.com

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August 29, 2024

Paula, I'll never forget when I first saw your fb page and requested you. You must've gone through my photos & seen I was an Elvis fan, and to my surprise, you created this photo of me with Elvis that absolutely shocked me. You will definitely be missed! Sleep in peace beautiful lady, till we meet again..

Paula wherever you are I miss you so very badly day and night free at last Can't take it my grief is with me you golden gem of sweetheart a wonderful sis great fun go go bars etc who can I talk to rest in a pillow of clouds

Marguerite Giumarra

December 24, 2021

Paula wherever you are I miss you so very badly day and night free at last
Can't take it my grief is with me you golden gem of sweetheart a wonderful sis great fun go go bars etc
who can I talk to rest in a pillow of clouds

Gail Henry Fareri

December 3, 2021

You will always be missed. Seems so much longer than 2 years that you have been gone. I think of you so often and wish I could hear your sweet voice. We will see each other soon. Love you so much my friend.

Rosemarie Caddle

September 21, 2021

It was a wild ride...R.I.P. Paula

Barbara Vigilante Paster

June 10, 2021

I was missing your posts and came looking for you. This was not what I expected. I'll miss your photography, spirit and smile. You always put a smile to my day. Rest In Peace.

Samuel Clark

May 17, 2021

I remember, the first time I saw a picture of Paula was in Easy Riders Magazine in the '70s. Since then I have enjoyed her work very much because of the content; the people, the culture. God Bless you Paula, the world, especially the biker world, misses you.

Bruce Stockberger

February 1, 2021

From one photographer to another! Your talent goes so far in capturing the lifestyles and closeness of NJ Bikers. The world has lost a talent that few have ever had! Your ability to capture the "Essence" of a world not known by many is sorely missed but your photography will last for many many years! Goodbye to a wonderful talented creative person that is gone far too soon! RIP Paula!

School Boy

September 10, 2020

GBNF-Paula- R.I.P

Christine Sullivan

September 3, 2020

I always liked Paula she was married to . brotherAx

David Young

July 9, 2020

Rest easy, my friend
Doc

S Raduenz

February 25, 2020

Condolences Paula RIP.

Eddie

February 20, 2020

My condolences to all of Paula's family and friends. I have just now heard of her passing.

Paula was a huge part of the biker lifestyle in New Jersey and beyond. I had known of her excellent photography in the mags. Then I met her in person at the meeting where Jersey ABATE was formed. She was always a supporter of bikers rights and attended so many of the fundraisers and events. Swap meets, Plain Janes, parties- Paula was there and documented them all with her photographs. Thank you for your support of ABATE and the MCs in Jersey.

Paula, you were a true icon of the biker scene and will always be remembered here.

Marguerite Giumarra

February 3, 2020

My God Paula can't believe you are gone. 45 years of friendship. You told me everything. Tried to assist. From Childhood to forever. Your trust was so valuable friend and sister.
All the things you are famous for. My intimate look at your life. Was a trust few find.
From Jersey City. Live on forever my Sweet Sister. Why ....

Ralph DeTurk

January 17, 2020

I live in Virginia but years ago I was a neighbor of Doug and Paula. And Amber. Chemo too. Doug told me on Thursday, the 16th., of Paula's passing. After all the affection related by her friends what more can I write about this incredible human being. Then I remembered what Doug said to me on the phone, "Ralph, Paula loved you." Love. We love much in our lives. But to be loved, well, that's quite the blessing. We can choose to love, others choose to love us. Paula loved me. Looking back what was it I did for her to love me. Was I funny. Was I smart. Was I good. Maybe. Likely I was nothing more than...being me. That's how she was. Just be yourself, I can hear her saying, "That's a lot more than most people can offer." Paula did photo art for my Grandchildren. These amazing works of her imagination will adorn their walls until they are old ladies. She will beautify the walls of my heart until I am an old man. Until our next martini, my sweet. Vaya con Dios.

Jesse Stewart

December 30, 2019

Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming "Wow! What a Ride!

craig Fetherolf

December 27, 2019

Thank you for your kindness and friendship Paula I will miss you. Fly free my friend. Craig Road Hawk Magazine

Debi Ellingham Lezark

December 24, 2019

Paula, I remember you in the high school years, you were in my home room and I simply loved you! You were so special to me and we had so much fun. Though I missed you from time to time, we still hung up together. I will NEVER forget you. See you soon.
With all my love,
Debi Ellingham

clayton Patterson

December 21, 2019

In 1985, when Ari Roussimoff and I started the Tattoo Society of New York Paula Grimaldi Reardon was one of the regulars who always showed up. She would come with her 2 lights, a background cloth, and her camera. When I helped Dick Zigun organize his Coney Island tattoo show, she would show up. She would get some of the photos into biker magazines. In the magazines I saw she documented the exotic dance scene. Eventually I learned Paula also photographed the major biker events like Daytona. This was the 80's and early 90's when it was considered a very dangerous place to take photos, but there was Paula. She is one of the only photograph I know of who had the ability cross the 1% lines and get the photos.
Paula is a NY ACKER recipient. She is an actress in Ari Rousimoff's movie Shadows in the City. In my opinion Paula is one of the most over-looked and under-rated documentary photographers in the world she inhabited. I hope her archive is saved and protected. She is one of the great ones. She was beautiful, always friendly, and everyone loved Paula. She was one of jewels I met doing the TSNY. She was a loving wife and she loved her dog. Like the true warrior she was she fought a long hard battle. Forever in our memory. Love and Respect. Condolences to Douglas Reardon her loving husband. Clayton Patterson NYC

Sunshine Friend

December 21, 2019

You were an amazing strong woman. Your kindness and loving ways has left a special place in many hearts. I will miss your beautiful photographs. I know you are free and flying high with the angels on your new journey. Love you. Miss you.

brian sweeney

December 21, 2019

you will be missed, rest in Peace

Keith McElwee

December 20, 2019

Thank you Paula for all the good times you documented and memories you captured. Rest Easy
Ride Hard !

RICK RICO

December 19, 2019

Ride with the Angels and watch over us through your lens from the heavens above. Rest easy .

I am so sad that my dear, sweet friend Paula Grimaldi-Reardon passed from this earthly realm. Along with being one of the best photographers in the motorcycle and tattoo genres, she was a kind, loving, unique, free-spirited soul. Fly with the angels, dear

Marjorie Kleiman

December 19, 2019

I am so sad that my dear, sweet friend Paula Grimaldi-Reardon passed from this earthly realm. Along with being one of the best photographers in the motorcycle and tattoo genres, she was a kind, loving, unique, free-spirited soul. Fly with the angels, dear Paula. I'll miss you forever. And I'll never forget how you've inspired me to be kind.

We met fifty years ago this month, and a week or so later rode on my motorcycle to the movie theater to see Easy Rider, which had just been released. We always promised each other "If I don't meet you no more in this world, then I'll meet you in the next

Patrick Dickson

December 18, 2019

We met fifty years ago this month, and a week or so later rode on my motorcycle to the movie theater to see Easy Rider, which had just been released. We always promised each other "If I don't meet you no more in this world, then I'll meet you in the next one And don't be late Don't be late" You've touched so many people's hearts and souls. You will be missed and remembered by many. I will always love you Paula! RIP dear friend!

Steve {Zipperhead} Murafsky

December 17, 2019

Rest In Paradise My Long Time Dear Friend..Thank You For All The Beautiful Pictures You Made For Me Over The Years...You Are One Of A Kind...You Have Touched So Many With Your Beautiful Pictures & Artwork...You Are Forever In My Heart ❤ And Will Never Be Forgotten...I Love You Paula And Will See You Again..❤

cine taylor

December 17, 2019

Keeping the family in prayers & thoughts. Paula was a special lady that will be loved & missed by many.

Andy Silva

December 16, 2019

So sorry I'm going to miss paula

Ava Raimo

December 16, 2019

Paula when you were born you cried and the world rejoiced. Today as you walk on, the world is crying and you are rejoicing. You were so incredibly kind and loving ... my dear friend this world was so much better with you in it. Your wings were ready but our hearts were not. Fly high Paula

Wil Comstock

December 16, 2019

Paula, you taught us all so much as you faced death. Never afraid. Always positive. I'll miss you here on earth, yet I know your presence is always with me.

Wendy Wolfson

December 15, 2019

Till we meet again Paula, RIP

deborah steen

December 15, 2019

Rest in peace to the most beautiful and talented Lady. You will be missed by many. Thank you for creating a legacy, not just for yourself, but for other's as well. You will never be forgotten.

Susan Mollica

December 15, 2019

Dear cousin, dear friend.... I will miss you forever, though you live on in my heart. I'm so thankful for the wonderful moments we've shared over many years, and for the amazing words you sent me in those last weeks. Truly special, you will always be.

Gail Henry-Fareri

December 14, 2019

RIP Paula. You will be missed forever til we meet again. You were such a warm generous woman both inside and out. Always had a way of seeing things in a positive way. I admired that. Your photography was amazing. Anyone that knew you, loved you. So sorry for the family to go through thus most difficult time. Prayers to all of them. I love you my friend since childhood.

Gail Henry-fareri

December 14, 2019

So sorry for her family's loss. My prayers are with them. Anyone who new Paula knew a One of a kind woman. She was beautiful both inside and outside. Had a heart of gold and her talent for photography will be missed also. RIP my childhood friend and confidante. So glad we had the chance to get back in touch the last 8 or 9 years. I will never forget you. We will meet again.

Clay Shafer

December 14, 2019

Good by old freind ill never forget you

John Haggerty

December 14, 2019

Thanks for the awesome photos throughout the years

Jenny Introne

December 13, 2019

I am so very sorry she will never be forgotten

Joseph Petrone

December 13, 2019

So very sorry for the family's loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time

Vinnie Vaughn

December 13, 2019

R.I.P. Paula, having known you since Linwood SchoolClass 1969, thru New Brunswick High School class of 1972, we had fun times being in few classes great classmate, we joked good times, you were a great Talented Photographer & my sister Nancy Loved you girl for the great Pulsating Paula Biker Front Page Photos too. your now in Zebra blue & white Heavens Now God Bless, My Condolences to your Brother "Esq." Mike Grimaldi & Great Family to.

Janet Kearney

December 13, 2019

I am sorry for the loss of such a beautiful and talented woman. to her family. May she Rest In eternal peace.

Susan Celi

December 13, 2019

I mean no offense to Paula's family when I signed it as her daughter instead of friend.She always told everybody I was her daughter.Then as I got older she said I was making her looking older so we decided on Spiritual Sisters.My Condolences to her family.She will be missed by so many people who's life she touched.

Susan Celi

December 13, 2019

I will always be your forever daughter and spiritual sister.It' been an honor to of been in the light of your sweetness and love.I will really miss you and keep you forever in my heart & memories.Bye-Bye ,see you on the other side.

Paul Bruno

December 13, 2019

Paula, you will be missed by many....... RIP

KAREN Leroux CARR

December 13, 2019

Dear Paula,
I will always treasure the few small adventures we shared. I will always appreciate how much you worried about, cared about and reeally loved your friends. You were always so genuine, and honest, ad GOD, YOU WERE SO FREAKIN FUNNY! I am so sorry that you had to suffer so at the end ?(or should I say -beginning?) you did nothing to ever deserve pain. I know you are in the light, in that picture I showed you of Heaven (the one I found in that junk shop, after my son died) Remember? Paradise Valley? That's where I picture you now. We will meet again, till then, tell my sweet boy how much I miss him? He 'll remember you from when he was much younger. SEE YOU ON THAT BEAUTIFUL, OTHER SIDE:
WHERE YOU ARE (AND HAVE ALWAYS BEEN)-
Unchained
Untamed
Forever FREE...
Love Leroux

Steven Puff

December 13, 2019

You were a beautiful angel here on earth. I am so glad we had opportunity to reconnect recently.

Jennifer Bernard

December 13, 2019

Paula you were one of a kind! Such a special woman that we all loved so much. I have so many memories with you when I was a kid. The beautiful photos you took of me when I was pregnant, and your sweet words when I lost my mom earlier this year. You will live on in all of our heart beautiful lady! Rest in paradise!

Toni Madsen

December 13, 2019

Gone but never forgotten . You will live on in your photos. Thank you for the memories. Rest In Peace beautiful

John Vanluven

December 13, 2019

Gonna miss that smile..
Rest in peace

Phyllis Martin-Borrero

December 13, 2019

The words cannot express our love for you and the special feelings we shared. You inspired me to be brave and become a tattoo artist in what was a man's world. Your artistic eye and fun loving confidence shined upon all you met! The bond you and my husband Henry shared from so many years ago was and still is a deep part of his spirit. He and I miss you but know we will meet again in the peaceful place you told me to tell Henry of where we will all be free, out of pain and dancing with flowers in our hair. Bless your beautiful talented soul.

andy placher

December 13, 2019

SO SAD

Steven Crawford

December 12, 2019

Rest In Peace loved your photography.

Ron Galentine

December 12, 2019

Sorry for your loss. Thank you Paula for the beautiful, happy memories of my life. God bless you and your family!

Jennifer Kirsner

December 12, 2019

Paula, thank you for being the person you were. You were one of a kind. You were there for me in my time of need, I will always be grateful for that. May you RIP.
Love always,
Jenn (your pink sister)

Jimmy Carter

December 12, 2019

Rest in Peace Paula

Lily Covert

December 12, 2019

Rest in peace paula. Condolences to your family.

Nathan Shaker Philephs

December 12, 2019

The world lost a beautiful soul and a living legend may you ride high with the angels until we meet again at the campfire in the sky RIP sweet lady

Nathan Shaker Philephs

December 12, 2019

Rip my sweet friend met you at 7 years old with my father Reb I'm gonna miss you sweet lady

Bob Hendershot

December 12, 2019

Paula it was a great pleasure knowing you and seeing your pictures and reading your captions on the bikers lifestyle through the years. Condolences to Doug and your family

Chuck Scarboro

December 12, 2019

Rest in piece Paula, you will be missed

Chris

December 12, 2019

So long Paula , Rest In Peace

Kathy Gourley

December 12, 2019

Paula I am saddened to hear of your passing.Though we only met once it seemed we were friends for a lifetime. We kept in touch for years Thank you for the Beautiful memorial photo of your good friend my Brother Kevin. I'm at a loss for words.You will be sadly missed by Me and everyone's lives you have touched.Rest Easy my sweet friend Paula. My condolences go out to you Doug and her family and friends.Love ya Paula

Carole Shloyda

December 12, 2019

Paula, our circle has been broke but the memories are etched in my heart forever. Its been a great ride. My sincerest condolences to Doug an your family. I love you. Rest in Paradise.

David Carlon

December 12, 2019

Rest in peace you are a beautiful soul ,the earth will miss you greatly ,but heaven will welcome you as a beautiful Angel as you were truly just that.God Bless Pulsating Paula.

AL RICCI

December 12, 2019

PAULA YOU WILL MISSED DEARLY I REMEMBER MEETING YOU IN 1980 AN THAT TRENTON PARTY WITH MY CHOPPER DONT NO WHY GOD ALWAYS TAKES THE GOOD ONES R.I.P PAULA AL WRENCH RICCI

Yvette Gaston

December 12, 2019

Loved and respected by so many who had the honor to know her. Ride free girl

Love Chris (crazy animal) and Yvette

Kat Stone

December 12, 2019

R.I.P Paula . Your smile will never be forgotten . Condolences to Doug and the rest of your family . With love Kat Stone

tony RUZICKA

December 12, 2019

Tony (animal ) Ruzicka, Ed (panhead) Kiernan... may you rest in peace our dear friend... you were always a great lady and always will be... Until we meet again sweet lady... love always... xoxo..

Cheryl & James Reardon

December 12, 2019

Words seem inadequate to express the emotions we are feeling over the loss of our beautiful sister-in-law, Paula. Our hearts ache forDoug, Paula's family, and friends. As Dr. Seuss once wrote, "Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened." RIP Paula, you beautiful angel.

Joe Grimaldi

December 12, 2019

My beautiful and loving sister with such a sweet soul will be missed by everyone who was fortunate enough to know her. My love for her will live on within my heart forever.

Joseph Torre

December 12, 2019

Rest in eternal peace my dear friend, your spirit will soar through the heavens and kept alive in our souls forever and thank you for blessing us all with your presence ❤

Panhead Josh Griffith

December 12, 2019

For years we crossed each other's paths, one way or another, but in the last couple years we learned a lot about each other and learned to lean on each other. She was a very special woman and I will miss her dearly

Joseph Torre

December 12, 2019

Fly with the angels my dear friend, your memory will live forever in our hearts, biker heaven is blessed with your presence, till we all meet on the other side. Rest in eternal peace ❤

Sue Kovacs

December 12, 2019

So sorry to hear you passed away. There will never be another trailblazer like you. Rest in peace Paula you'll be very missed!

Nancy Mollema

December 11, 2019

RIP my old friend!

Nicholas Smirlis

December 11, 2019

Paula, You were always a very pleasant person to be around. I knew you from high school and always looked forward to and enjoyed our Christmas time together with our group of friends. I'll always remember you.

Your friend,
Nicholas

Paulette Wahler

December 11, 2019

Paula you were so talented - God Bless you and family

Brenda Sweeny

December 11, 2019

God Speed Beautiful Paula!..

Linda DAQUINO (Laiacona's)

December 11, 2019

R.I.P. Paula all your cousins near and far will miss you dearly ❤ you

Bob Bukowczyk

December 11, 2019

Paula will remain in our hearts forever.

Michael Grimaldi

December 11, 2019

There are no words that can express the sense of lost love which I feel! You will always live in my heart!

Paula my friend to argue was in vain. Now never see you again or send messages of FB talking on the phone hour at a time. Going to the Tattoo Convention alone you and me. Henry Brought me to your house at least 1977. You have a chronological photos of our

Marguerite Giumarra

December 11, 2019

Paula my friend to argue was in vain. Now never see you again or send messages of FB talking on the phone hour at a time. Going to the Tattoo Convention alone you and me. Henry Brought me to your house at least 1977. You have a chronological photos of our lives together. Telling your real feelings and I always supported you . No one will ever know how much we shared or you meant to me. love and fly on Angels Wings into the arms of Jesus and Your Mother and family. Tears you shared. Day by day chronicle . Every thought you had. Love you Marge Always My Little Angel. You are free as can be .

Lon

December 10, 2019

Paula, it was always a pleasure to be in your company. Your showed love to everyone who crossed your path.
I felt it and I am sure everyone else did too. You deserved to be here much longer but now someplace somewhere has the pleasure of having you.

Love,
Lon

Frank and Patricia Fanelli

December 10, 2019

She was beautiful,talented, warm and exceedingly kind. She left us too soon, but she will always be in our hearts.

Joey Grimaldi

December 10, 2019

In a world full of monotony and copycats my Aunt Paula broke the mold. She was a truly authentic individual. You are loved and respected by so many. You will live on through all of your beautiful art and the great relationships and hearts you touched along the way. I know you are in a better place now. Please keep an eye on your Godson. Until we meet again, Love You.

Amy Handaly

December 10, 2019

Paula we are all missing you so much already. We all loved you so much. I know you have no more pain.

Love

Amy

Dave Renda

December 10, 2019

Paula was a kind and loving soul we have lost so much may she RIP

Michael Grimaldi

December 10, 2019

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