Obituary published on Legacy.com by Merle Hay Funeral Home on Mar. 13, 2026.
PHAN VAN PHAI
April 1, 1953 (1949) - April 18, 2025
MEMORIAL SERVICE
Thursday, April 24 2:30 - 8:00 p.m.
and Friday, April 25 8:00 - 10:30 a.m.
Merle Hay Funeral Home & Crematory
4400 Merle Hay Rd.
Des Moines, Iowa 50310
TI U S
Ông Phan Van Ph i, cu ng t i
Urbandale, Iowa, dã t tr n t i gia, hu ng th 77 tu i vào ngày 18 tháng 4 nam 2025.
Ông Ph i sinh ngày 1 tháng 4 nam 1953 (1949) t i Gò Công ông, Ti n Giang, Vi t Nam, là con trai c a ông Phan Van Ch n và bà Tr n Th Hai.
Ông k t hôn v i bà Nguy n Th Nhanh vào nam 1972 và có v i nhau tám ngu i con. Nam 2004, ông Ph i c'ng v và ba ngu i con r i Vi t Nam sang Hoa K Gia dình d nh cu t i thành ph
Des Moines, Iowa, noi ông làm vi c t i B nh vi n Mercy. Sau dó, gia dình chuy n d n
Urbandale, Iowa, noi ông ngh huu khi d tu i 60.
Sau khi ngh huu, ông Ph i dành nhi u th i gian bên các cháu, cham sóc vu n nhà, tr ng rau và di câu cá m i khi có d p.
D' là ngu i ít nói, ông Ph i luôn s ng tình c m và chu dáo, luôn nghi d n ngu i khác tru c khi nghi d n b n thân.
Ông d l i v yêu quý – bà Nguy n Th Nhanh, ngu i b n d i 53 nam – c'ng các con:
Phan Van Ch ng (Trâm) – Vi t Nam
Phan Th Tuy t Vân (H'ng) – Vi t Nam
Phan Th Tuy t Mai (T t) – Vi t Nam
Phan Th Tuy t Lan – Vi t Nam
Phan Th Thu Huong (Phúc) – Vi t Nam
Phan Van Thông – Hoa K
Phan Nhu H ng (Thanh) – Hoa K
Phan Th Tuy t H ng (Trình) – Hoa K
Ông Ph i s mãi du c yêu thuong và ghi nh trong lòng 11ngu i cháu và 1 cháu c
Mr. Phan Van Phai, of
Urbandale, Iowa, passed away peacefully at home at the age of 77 on April 18, 2025.
Phai was born on April 1, 1953 (1949) in Go Cong Dong, Tien Giang, Vietnam, to parents Phan Van Chan and Tran Thi Hai.
He married Nguyen Thi Nhanh in 1972, and together they had eight children. In 2004, Phai left Vietnam for the United States with Nhanh and their three youngest children. They made their home in
Des Moines, Iowa, where Phai worked at Mercy Hospital. Later, the family moved to
Urbandale, Iowa, where Phai retired in his 60s.
After retiring, Phai spent much of his time with his grandchildren. He enjoyed gardening, growing vegetables, and going fishing whenever time permitted.
Although Phai was a man of few words, he was kind and caring-always thinking of others before himself.
He is survived by his loving wife of 53 years, Nguyen Thi Nhanh, and his children:
Phan Van Chang (Tram) – Vietnam
Phan Thi Tuyet Van (Hung) – Vietnam
Phan Thi Tuyet Mai (Tot) – Vietnam
Phan Thi Tuyet Lan – Vietnam
Phan Thi Thu Huong (Phuc) – Vietnam
Phan Van Thong – USA
Phan Nhu Hong (Thanh) – USA
Phan Thi Tuyet Hang (Trinh) – USA
Phai will be forever remembered and loved by his 11 grandchildren and 1 great-grandchild.
Flowers may be sent to Merle Hay Funeral Home and donations may be directed to any immediate family member.