Philip J. Lahey Jr.

Philip J. Lahey Jr. obituary, Methuen, MA

Philip J. Lahey Jr.

Philip Lahey Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Methuen Family Funeral Home on Jul. 23, 2024.
Philip J. Lahey, Jr. 76, of Methuen, died on Monday, July 22, 2024 at the Holy Family Hospital in Methuen, MA.
Philip was born in Lawrence, MA on May 7, 1948 and was the son of the late Philip J. and Lena M. (Grassi) Lahey.
Philip was raised in Methuen and was a graduate of Tenney High School, Class of 1966. After high school he enlisted in the United States Army and later graduated from Northern Essex Community College with a degree in Criminal Justice. He worked for the city of Methuen in the DPW department for 33 years until his retirement. He was very active within the city of Methuen, serving as a councilman. He was the co-founder of Merrimack Valley Prevention and Substance Abuse Project, co-hosted TV shows and podcast "The Empty Chair: Exposing Addiction," as well as facilitating the "Circle of Hope" a support group for the loved ones of addicts. Selflessly helping others, breaking the stigma of addiction, prevention and education were his passion and legacy. His favorite pastime was spending time with his family, especially his grandchildren and relaxing on his recliner with his dog Bailey.
Philip was the beloved husband of Francine M. Lahey. He was the loving father of David M. Lahey and his wife, Suzanne of Derry, NH., Colleen J. Lahey of Methuen, MA, David M. Dougenik and his wife, Lisa of Lynn, MA., Laurie A. Dougenik of Lynn, MA. He was the cherished grandfather of Emily Lahey and Cameron Lahey, Madison Dougenik and Danielle Dougenik. He was the brother of Paula Moore. He is also survived by all those who knew him well.
A Visitation for relatives and friends will be held in the Kenneth H. Pollard Funeral Home, 233 Lawrence St., Methuen on Sunday, July 28, 2024 from 2:00pm-5:00pm. A Funeral Service will be held in the funeral home Sunday, July 28, 2024 at 5pm.
In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made in Philip's name to, Merrimack Valley Prevention and Abuse Project, Cheryl Parent Enterprise Bank, 8 High St. Andover, MA 01810. For direction or condolences please visit pollardfuneralhome.com
The Kenneth H. Pollard Funeral Home is honored to serve the Lahey Family.

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July 29, 2024

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July 28, 2024

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Sandra Lewis

July 29, 2024

I met Phil at work Trombly school bus just talking chatting and smiling like we all do. He will be missed thoughts and prayers sent to family may he rip.

Sandra lewis

July 29, 2024

Meeting him from school bus company always smiling.

Thomas D Gradzewicz

July 28, 2024

We met Phil when he was first running for the City Council... He was a great guy and he will be missed... our love and condolences to his family... Fran and Tom Gradzewicz

Teresa Koukias

July 28, 2024

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Michelle Perez

July 28, 2024

Phil came to work at Trombly everyday with this great big smile. His joy for life rubbed off on all he encountered. His passion for substance abuse awareness and his time spent educating people was admirable. His Love for his wife and Family were present everyday when he would share stories. Truly a Great Man

Eileen Palombo

July 25, 2024

The love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Mike Rivera

July 24, 2024

Thank you for your service to our country, Sir. Job well done and it´s now time to Rest In Peace. May God Bless You and your family.
~Salute~
VFW Post 1012, Medford, MA

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