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Philip Shaughnessy Obituary

Philip James Shaughnessy passed away on January 20, 2023, in the comfort of his home and in the company of loved ones. Born on October 11, 1930, in Biddeford, Maine, he spent his youth playing ice hockey with friends, and basketball and football on school teams. He graduated from the University of Rhode Island, where he met his lifelong love, Barbara Clark. In a rags-to-riches story, they navigated his Army service during the Korean War and then settled in Glastonbury, Connecticut where they raised their family and developed deep friendships. Phil began his career working with room-sized computers and over the next 30+ years excelled to become an Assistant Vice President with an MBA at Aetna Life & Casualty.

He and Barbara lived long lives together, celebrating the birth of seven grandchildren and eight great-grandchildren. They moved to the Rhode Island shore, back to Connecticut, and spent the last 9 years comfortably at the home of their daughter, Suzanne and her husband, Nate. While we mourn the loss of him here with us, we know he had a date to keep with Barbara who passed in October. Together in Heaven, they will celebrate their 70th wedding anniversary this week.

Phil leaves behind children Linda, Suzanne, and David, as well as their supportive spouses; grandchildren Guin, Alex, Nathan, Deanna, Jacob, Will, and Maighread, and a growing number of great-grandchildren. His example of integrity and perseverance will live on in all who knew him.

Special thanks go to the wonderful care partners Ruth, Jill, Audrey, Lori, Tina, and the hospice team led by Sharon who have been a source of support, comfort and strength through the year.

Family and friends may gather at John F. Tierney Funeral Home, 219 W. Center Street in Manchester, CT on Saturday, January 28, 2023, from 10 to 11 AM and the subsequent Mass of Christian Burial at 12 PM at St. Augustine's Church, SS. Isidore and Maria Parish, 55 Hopewell Road, South Glastonbury, CT.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Wounded Warrior Project, P.O. Box 758516, Topeka, Kansas 66675-8516. For online condolences, please visit www.tierneyfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jan. 25, 2023.

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John Carter

February 25, 2023

My sincere condolences to the Shaughnessy family. Phil was a delight to know and work with at Aetna for many years. His sense of humor, knowledge, and mentorship will always be fondly remembered.

Helen and Irwin Sitkin

February 9, 2023

We have lost a good friend--I hired Phil at The Aetna in 1955 and grew together opening new doors, forging new paths with computers making "things" happen. Phil was a terrific partner and all around good person. Love to"the kids", stay safe. be well and ENJOY.

adreanne good

January 28, 2023

my condolences go out to the family a beautiful person with a heart of gold riheavenly peace gone but never forgotten

John Donovan

January 27, 2023

I loved Phil's sense of humor. He was a great guy! He was on a steering committee for one of my big projects, and his incite was spot on.

Philip J Rosch

January 27, 2023

Phil was the stereotypical "good man". He was fair, honest, and always listened to both sides of an argument. He was one of my favorite managers.

Madeline Bellows

January 26, 2023

In the mid to late 70's I had the good fortune of being a Chief of Staff to Phil at Aetna. He was one of the most thoughtful people I had the opportunity to work with at Aetna. I was early in my career and couldn't have asked for a better mentor. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

Michael Hayes

January 24, 2023

Visiting daughter Linda and myself, I remember Phil climbing way up into an orange tree to pick fresh oranges at a friend's SoCal orchard, just because he could. He picked way more than we could possibly consume but he had a ton of fun doing it. It was written all over his face. I also remember him taking pictures of the golf course at the end of our road, in Altadena, CA, on a glorious, warm Christmas day so he could show his golfing buddies back in frigid Conn. what golfers do on Christmas Day in California, namely golf. He's with Barbara now and I trust they're very happy.

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John F. Tierney Funeral Home

219 West Center Street, Manchester, CT

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Mass of Christian Burial

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55 Hopewell Road, Glastonbury, CT

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