Phillis Lucille De Both
Phillis Lucille De Both
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7955 Ivystone Avenue South, Cottage Grove, MN 55016
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7955 Ivystone Avenue South, Cottage Grove, MN 55016
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7955 Ivystone Ave S, Cottage Grove, MN 55016
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Phillis De Both Obituary
Phillis Lucille De Both, age 80, of Cottage Grove, passed away unexpectedly on Tuesday, October 14, 2025.
Preceded in death by parents, John and Clara; siblings, Judy Mudd, Nancy Selley, Genevieve Vejcik, Sylvester John Selley, Ron Selley, George Selley, and Russell Selley; and granddaughter, Krysia Brady. Survived by beloved husband of 44 years, Dale; children, Terrance (Faith) Huiskens and Heidi (Peter) Brady; grandchildren, Corinne, Nathan, Gwendolyn, and Kennedy; siblings, Diane (Phil) Scholten, William Selley, and Lawrence Selley; many nieces and nephews as well as other loving family and friends.
Visitation 9-11 AM with Celebration of Life beginning at 11 AM, Thursday, October 30, 2025 at Crossroads Church, 7955 Ivystone Ave. S., Cottage Grove, MN 55016. There will be a luncheon to follow the service.
In lieu of flowers, memorials preferred to Minnesota Humane Society or your favorite animal rescue.
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Oct
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9:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.
Crossroads Church
7955 Ivystone Avenue South, Cottage Grove, MN 55016
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11:00 a.m.
Crossroads Church
7955 Ivystone Avenue South, Cottage Grove, MN 55016
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Service
11:45 a.m.
Crossroads Church- Cottage Grove
7955 Ivystone Ave S, Cottage Grove, MN 55016
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Kok Funeral Home & Cremation Service - Cottage GroveOnly 6 days left for delivery to next service.