Phyllis Mays

Phyllis Mays of Dubuque, Iowa passed away peacefully on March 17, 2025 at Stonehill Care Center just 20 days shy of her 94th birthday.
Family and friends are invited to a visitation from 1:00-3:00 p.m. on Friday, March 21, 2025 at Egelhof, Siegert & Casper Funeral Home and Crematory. 2659 JFK Road, Dubuque. The Dubuque Moose Lodge will present a service beginning at 3:00 p.m. Click here to view the funeral service livestream: https://vimeo.com/event/5008655. Burial will take place at a later date at Linwood Cemetery in Russellville, OH.
Phyllis was born on April 7, 1931 in Hazelcrest, IL to Elliott and Johanna (Strom) Peterson.
On December 21, 1951, she married the love of her life James "Donald" Mays. They shared more than 72 years of love and adventure until his passing nine months ago. Together they built a life full of cherished memories.
After marrying and moving to Dubuque, Phyllis was employed by Mercy Hospital and worked for the Dubuque Community School District. In their younger years Phyllis and Donald found much joy in RV camping trips to Arizona making memories under the wide desert sky. Later in life Phyllis and her husband owned and operated the Mays Grill Shop from the early 1980's until they closed up shop in early 2000's. Not quite ready to retire they both took a job at the Dubuque Greyhound Park where they thoroughly enjoyed working and met so many wonderful friends.
Phyllis was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, and great grandmother who took immense pride in bringing her family together. She loved hosting gatherings, preparing favorite dishes, and creating traditions that will be cherished for generations. She loved flowers and had many beautiful displays throughout her yard. Phyllis also had a deep bond with animals, especially her beloved dogs who were always a constant source of companionship and joy.
Phyllis was a proud 50 year member of the Dubuque Moose Lodge 355, where she found fulfillment in helping organize fundraisers to benefit children in need. Her dedication to service and her generous spirit have a lasting impact on those around her.
Phyllis is survived by her three loving children:
Kevin M. Mays of Dubuque, IA
James D. Mays (Shannon) of Denver CO
Elliott L. Mays of Marathon, WI
She was blessed with five grandchildren, ten great grandchildren, and three great great grandchildren.
She is proceeded in death by her parents, husband, two brothers Ronald and Allan, and beloved great grandson Terran Gallegos.
In lieu of flowers, donations to Hospice of Dubuque would be appreciated.
The family would like to extend a special thank you to Stonehill and Hospice of Dubuque for the wonderful care and compassion given to Phyllis. Your kindness will always be remembered.