Phyllis May Proctor

Obituary for Phyllis May Proctor
Phyllis May Proctor, 81, of Columbia, Missouri, passed away on March 1, 2025. Born on May 29, 1943, in Bell, California, Phyllis was the daughter of Harvey and Violet (Stephens) Walters.
Phyllis married the love of her life, Tommy Proctor, on October 24, 1964. Together, they raised five children. Tommy preceded her in death on December 13, 2000.
Phyllis was a loving mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, sister, and friend. She is survived by her five children: Pam (Frank) White of Ashland, MO; Jerry (Tammy) Malone of Columbia, MO; Rick (Fayla) Malone of Columbia, MO; Penny (Donnie Neal) Lyddon of Columbia, MO; and William "Pete" (Kim) Thomas Proctor Jr. of Shawnee, KS. She is also survived by her sisters, Donna Havens of Pilot Grove, MO, and Joanne Sylvester of Bluffdale, UT, 15 grandchildren and 20 great-grandchildren, along with many extended family and friends.
Phyllis was preceded in death by her beloved husband, her parents, and her brother, Bill Walters.
Phyllis had a heart full of love and was known for her kind and generous spirit. She loved to dance, particularly to country music, and cherished every Saturday night spent dancing at the VFW. Shopping was a favorite pastime, and she could often be found browsing the aisles of Hobby Lobby. G&D Steakhouse was one of her favorite places to eat, and she had an unwavering passion for spending time with her family.
Phyllis was famous for never forgetting a birthday. She would often call at midnight, or even at the exact time of your birth, to wish you well. She knew no stranger and had a unique ability to make everyone she met feel special. Her warm heart and infectious smile left a lasting impression on all who had the privilege of knowing her.
Services to celebrate Phyllis's life will be held on Thursday, March 6, 2025. Visitation from 11:00 a.m. at Nilson-Millard Cremation and Burial Center with service at 12:00 p.m., followed by interment at Red Rock Cemetery, Harrisburg, MO.
In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to Red Rock United Methodist Church 4760 W. Squire Court Rd, Harrisburg, MO 65256.
Phyllis's love for family, her joyful spirit, and her generous heart will be deeply missed by all who knew her. She leaves behind a legacy of kindness, love, and cherished memories that will continue to live on in the hearts of her loved ones.
Arrangements are under the direction of Nilson-Millard Cremation & Burial Center, 5611 E. St. Charles Rd.; Columbia, MO 65202. (573) 474-8443. Online condolences may be left for the family at www.millardfamilychapels.com