Ralph Defino

Ralph Defino obituary, Hollywood, FL

Ralph Defino

Ralph Defino Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Landmark Funeral Home on Apr. 16, 2025.

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Defino, Raphael "Ralph" Albert, 93, of Hollywood, passed away on April 13, 2025. Born on Oct. 13, 1931, in Newark, N.J, he earned undergraduate and master's degrees in teaching and later served as principal of three Broward County elementary schools. Ralph retired in 1993 after 32 years in the public school system; his last position was principal of Sheridan Hills Elementary. He was married to Theresa Defino, a former teacher and physical therapist, from 1955 until her death in 2011. He also served in the Army and was stationed in Alaska. The couple moved to Florida in 1963, where they raised six children. Ralph was a loyal friend, leader, mentor and an inspiration to all who knew or worked with him. He lived up to the description of "guileless" that was noted in his college yearbook. He could recite the name of every child in his school. He was devoted to his wife, children and grandchildren, and each of them felt his unwavering love and support. His great-grandchildren, or "the little guys" as he called them, were a special delight. After retirement, he and his wife spent countless days relishing life in their cabin amid the mountains of Georgia; they also enjoyed traveling together. Ralph appreciated nature and passed on his love of sunsets to his family. A talented caricaturist, he made model cars, could glue anything back together, enjoyed barbequing and tinkering in his garage, and took pride in fixing his car and maintaining his homes himself. In his later years, Ralph reveled in attending car shows where he and his son would stand with pride next to his 1936 Ford, a surprise gift from his son.
He is survived by his children Linda (Corky), Theresa, Stephen (Marea), Kathleen and Mary Ellen; sister Marie; grandchildren Danny (Amber), Jonathan (Kristen), Sofia, Carolyn (Kris), Chloe, Paul, Julia, Sieta and Annabella; and great-grandchildren Dylan, Hyatt, Brody, Andrew, Kollyns and Adelyn. In addition to his wife, he is pre-deceased by his sister Corrine, brother Sam, youngest daughter Diane, and grandchildren Ursula and Kyle.
Visitation will be Tuesday, April 22, 2025, 5:00pm - 9:00pm with a prayer service Tuesday evening all at Landmark Funeral Home. Funeral Mass of the Resurrection will be Wednesday, April 23rd, 11:00am at Nativity Catholic Church followed by interment with military honors at Our Lady Queen of Heaven Catholic Cemetery in North Lauderdale.
Donations in Ralph's honor may be made to the Alzheimer's Association, https://www.alz.org.

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Daniel Shaver

June 10, 2025

Ralph Defino was not only the best Principal, he made our staff a family! He was kind, but serious, and well respected. We all regretted the day he retired! He is in Heaven with his wife and youngest daughter, leaving in peace and escorted by angels.

Scott Rosenblatt

April 23, 2025

I am so sorry for your loss. I will always have fond memories of your father.

John Civettini

April 21, 2025

To Ralph´s family,
Please accept my sincere condolences for your loss. Your father was a very special person who seemed to have a positive influence on everyone he met. I was lucky as a new principal to have had Ralph call me and ask me to visit his school.

When I arrived there was a fifth grader in the office being confronted for an infraction of school rules. He took my out of the office and told me to "play along". Next thing I know, he introduced my as Lieutenant Civettini from the Hollywood Police. By the time that boy left the office he was crying and apologizing for whatever he had done. It was a great way to put the fear of God in him without calling parents, suspension or any additional punishment. Oh, and we had a blast pulling it off.

Ralph was a great mentor who taught me how to survive the job and more important became a good friend. We kept in touch after retirement for awhile but unfortunately it´s easy to let months turn into years especially when Jeannie and I moved north to Ponce Inlet.

During many of our visits and conversations the topic of family, moving to America from the "old country" and wonderful stories about relatives and all of you-- his beautiful family-was the main focus not school.

You are very blessed to have had a father like Ralph. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family during these difficult times. My apologies for missing his celebration of life but my heart will be there with you!

Sincerely,
John

Linda Strutz

April 16, 2025

Mr Defino changed my life. He believed in me and allowed me to teach Prefirst in a very non traditional way. He not only supported me in all I did, he participated.
A quick story, we were studying the letter E. We simulated an election. The issues, the ballots, ballot box and someone SPECIAL to tally the votes. Yes, Ralph Defino dressed as Uncle Sam and tallied the votes for the election.
Ralph was a Special Principal beyond words. Only those of us who had the privilege to work WITH him knew.
He changed an uncountable number of lives. Ralph was truly a gift.
He will always hold a special place in my heart.
Fondly,
Linda Strutz

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