Randy Oakley

Randy Oakley was born on September 30, 1965, in Raymore, Missouri, to Charlie and Judy Oakley. From the start, he was a natural leader and a world changer. He loved the outdoors from a young age, ultimately earning the rank of Eagle Scout under the guidance of his father, who served as his scoutmaster. He cherished his parents and his sister, Stacy, deeply.
Randy excelled both academically and athletically at Raymore-Peculiar High School before attending BYU in Utah to continue his education. He later married Rebbeca "Becky" (Hoffmann) Oakley, and together they welcomed four children: Sarah (Benjamin), Matthew (Whitney), Daniel, and Hannah (Tony).
Though Randy and Becky eventually separated, they remained friends and held a lasting fondness for each other. After Randy and Lara married, Becky and Lara also developed a warm and supportive friendship.
In 2011, Randy met Lara, who became his wife and best friend. From the beginning, they chose each other every day. Together, they created a beautiful life filled with love, laughter, adventure, and quiet evenings in front of the fire with their two pups. They were rarely apart, and that closeness was one of the greatest gifts they shared.
Randy began his career as a recreational therapist, changing lives with his compassion and insight, and later transitioned into business. Whether through his work, church service, or entrepreneurial ventures, his mission was always the same: opening his life to others and helping them better theirs. People and impact were among the great loves of Randy's life.
His beautiful life came to a close in Sandy, Utah, where he leaves behind six children and seven grandchildren who admired him deeply. Randy passed peacefully at the age of 60 on November 15, 2025, surrounded by his loved ones, with Lara, as always, at his side. He was greeted in heaven by his parents, Charlie and Judy Oakley, and his mother-in-law, Marilyn Quinn.
He leaves behind his wife, Lara Oakley, and his children, Sarah, Matthew, Hannah, Daniel, Nicholas, and Aidan, to carry on his legacy with honor.
A celebration of Randy's life will be held on Sunday, November 23, in Sandy, Utah. If you feel connected to Randy and would like to attend, please reach out privately for the specific location.