Raymond Ralph "Butch" Lee Jr.

Raymond Ralph "Butch" Lee Jr. obituary

Raymond Ralph "Butch" Lee Jr.

Raymond Lee Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Parrott Funeral Home & Crematory on Jan. 2, 2026.
Raymond "Butch" Ralph Lee, Jr. passed away peacefully on January 1, 2026, at the age of 81. Born on September 2, 1944, in Atlanta, Georgia, Ray lived a life marked by dedication to his family, community, and country.

Ray proudly served his nation as a member of the United States Army. Following his honorable discharge, he continued his commitment to public service by joining the City of Atlanta Fire Department, where he worked diligently for ten years. Afterward, Ray transitioned into the field of commercial construction, serving as a superintendent for Caliber Construction, where he was respected for his leadership and expertise.

Ray was preceded in death by his beloved parents, Raymond Lee, Sr. and Opal Lee; his sister and brother-in-law, Bonnie and David Hattaway; and his niece, Davina Koehl.

He is survived by his devoted wife of 56 years, Ruth Moody Lee, who stood by his side through life's many seasons. Ray leaves behind two cherished daughters, Crystal Colburn (Darrell) and Tiffany Carroll (Wayne), who will forever hold his memory close. His legacy continues through his grandchildren: Dr. Devin Colburn (Marcel), Sydney Hagan (Drennan), Dalton Colburn (Katelin), Colton Carroll, and Colby Carroll, all of whom brought immense joy to his life.

Ray is also survived by his sister-in-law, Esther Morris; his niece, Holly Kanner (Scott); his nephew, Danny Koehl; and his great-nieces and nephews, Addie Koehl, Bonnie Kanner, Molly Kanner, and Lincoln Kanner, each of whom held a special place in his heart.

A memorial service to honor Ray's life will be held on Sunday, January 4, 2026, at 2:00 PM at the Chapel of Parrott Funeral Home, with grandson Dalton Lee Colburn officiating. Family and friends are invited to gather for visitation one hour prior to the service to pay their respects and celebrate the life of a man who touched so many.

Ray will be remembered for his unwavering dedication to those he loved and his steadfast commitment to his work and community. He will be deeply missed by all who knew him.

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