Raymond Lee Smidebush

Raymond Lee Smidebush obituary, McHenry, IL

Raymond Lee Smidebush

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Raymond Smidebush Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Thompson Spring Grove Funeral Home on Oct. 2, 2025.

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Raymond Lee Smidebush, age 80, of McHenry, passed away peacefully on Sunday, September 21, 2025, at his home. He was born October 5, 1944, to Roma and Mayme Marie (Modler) Smidebush. In December of 1986 he married Mary Ellen Arnet who preceded him in death in 2020.

Raymond was a graduate of Sterling High School. He was a U.S. Army veteran proudly serving in Vietnam.

Raymond is survived by his brother's-in-law Brian (Alice) Arnet and Robert (Susan) Arnet; and sister-in-law Vicky (Brian) Cain.

He was preceded in death by his parents, wife Mary Ellen; brother-in-law, Kevin Arnet; and a sister.

A funeral Mass will be celebrated at 11:30 a.m. on Thursday, October 9, 2025, at St. Patrick's Catholic Church, 3500 Washington Street, McHenry, IL. Burial will follow Mass at St. Patrick's Countryside Cemetery, McHenry.

Arrangements were entrusted to Thompson Spring Grove Funeral Home. For information call the funeral home at 815-675-0550.

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Upcoming Events

Oct

9

Funeral Mass

11:30 a.m.

St. Patrick's Roman Catholic Church

3500 Washington Street, McHenry, IL 60050

Send Flowers

Only 6 days left for delivery to next service.