Richard Lawrence May

Richard May, a beloved husband, father, grandfather, and friend, passed away on November 24, 2025, in Albuquerque, New Mexico. Born on September 12, 1942, in Seattle, Washington, he devoted his life to his family, career, and passions.

A proud graduate of Wheaton High School in Wheaton, Maryland, Class of 1960, Richard pursued higher education at St. Louis Community College and the University of Washington Tacoma. His dedication to learning was paralleled in his professional life, where he skillfully served as a tax preparer for H & R Block for a decade. Richard was admired for his work ethic and integrity, traits that left a lasting impression on all who worked with him.

Rich's vibrant personality shone through his amazing sense of humor. He had a knack for bringing laughter into every situation and was known for his warm smile, which uplifted the spirits of everyone around him. His infectious laughter created an inviting atmosphere, making moments spent with him memorable and cherished.

A devoted member of the First Baptist Church of Rio Rancho, Richard demonstrated his commitment to community and faith, embracing those around him with kindness and generosity. His hobbies included writing, reading, and photography, pursuits that filled his life with creativity and exploration. He particularly loved sharing stories about the places he had visited with his loving wife, Barbara McIntyre May, whom he cherished for 46 wonderful years.

Richard had a passion for model railroading, an interest that spanned an impressive 70 years. This dedication to detail and craft not only reflected his love for the hobby but also served as a testament to his patience and innovation.

Richard leaves behind his beloved wife, Barbara; his sister, Ellen Braby, of Oceanside, California; son Pete (Debbie) May, of Tigard, Oregon; and granddaughter Kelsey May, of Ohio. His legacy lives on through them, as well as through the countless lives he touched throughout his journey.

Richard May will be remembered not just for his accomplishments and interests, but for the joy and light he brought into the lives of those who knew him. He will be deeply missed by family and friends alike, who carry forward his spirit, laughter, and love.