Rita A. Rapuano

Rita A. Rapuano obituary, Yalesville, CT

Rita A. Rapuano

Rita Rapuano Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Wallingford Funeral Home - Wallingford on Jan. 15, 2026.
Rita A Rapuano, at 95 years young, passed peacefully on January 9, 2026 after a life defined by independence, quiet strength and an enduring love for horses. She lived on her own terms, guided by resilience, grace and a deep appreciation for the simple joys of life. Strong-willed and steady, she rode through life with dignity, determination and heart. Her self-reliance and strength left a lasting impression on all who knew her.
Rita, a resident of Wallingford, was born in New Haven CT. The daughter of the late Joseph and Antonette Bontatibus.
Rita is survived by children, Karen Leonetti (Peter), Lisa Richau, David Rapuano (Gayle) and daughter-in-law, Veronica Rapuano, her grandchildren, Nicholas "Nicky", Peter, Kaitlyn and Alicia, her great-grandchildren, Alessia, Olivia, Bailey and Jordan, brother John Bontatibus (Lynn) and many nieces & nephews.
In addition to her parents, she is predeceased by her husband Benjamin, children Benjamin and Gina, grandchildren Amy and Daniel and brother Joseph.
All Funeral Services will be private in care of Wallingford Funeral Home.

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