Robbin Lee Wilder

Robbin Lee Wilder obituary, Palmdale, CA

Robbin Lee Wilder

Robbin Wilder Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Halley Olsen Chapel of The Valley - Palmdale on Oct. 1, 2025.

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Robbin Lee Wilder, a beloved member of the aerospace community at Lockheed Martin for an impressive 35 years, has passed away on December 13, 2023. Robbin's passionate and outgoing nature touched the lives of those around him, leaving a lasting impact on his colleagues, friends, and family.
Born on June 1, 1943, in California, Robbin's adventurous spirit led him to pursue a degree in Criminology. Fueled by curiosity and an innate desire for knowledge, he graduated with a BA in Criminology. However, fate had different plans as Robbin found his true calling at Lockheed Martin.
During his time at Lockheed Martin, Robbin poured his heart and soul into the aerospace field. His dedication and unwavering commitment were evident in every project he embarked upon. Known for his impeccable work ethic and attention to detail, Robbin became an invaluable asset to the company. His contributions not only shaped the aerospace industry but also solidified Lockheed Martin's reputation as a pioneering force.
Beyond his professional pursuits, Robbin was deeply connected to his family. He was a loving husband to Vera Wilder, with whom he shared countless cherished memories. Together, they navigated life's ups and downs with unwavering support and love for one another.
Robbin was a proud father to Stacy Duffy, Jody Wilder & Dena gee. Stacy found solace in her father's guidance while Jody flourished under his encouraging presence. Their achievements were a testament to the immense love and support that Robbin provided throughout their lives.
In addition to Stacy and Jody, Robbin is survived by Dena Gee. The bond between Dena and her father brought them immeasurable joy as they journeyed through life side by side. Robbin's son-in-law Shane Duffy, Son-in-law Terry Gee and daughter-in-law Katie Wilder enriched his life through their unwavering loyalty and devotion. Robbin leaves behind not only his children but his10 grandchildren and 17 great grandchildren.
Robbin's passing leaves a void in the lives of all who had the privilege of knowing him. His infectious laughter, warm smile, and genuine care for others will be deeply missed.
To honor Robbin's memory and celebrate his remarkable life, a cremation service will be held at the Halley Olsen Chapel of the Valley in Palmdale, California, on December 29, 2023. The service will commence at 10:00 AM and conclude at 11:00 AM.
Robbin Lee Wilder touched the lives of many and left an indelible mark on the aerospace industry. He will forever be remembered for his unwavering commitment to excellence, his kind heart, and his passion for life. As we bid farewell to a remarkable individual, let us carry forth his legacy by living with the same zest and enthusiasm that defined Robbin's existence. May he find eternal peace in the heavens above.
Cremation
Friday, December 29th, 2023
10:00 am - 11:00 am
38141 6th St E,
Palmdale CA 93550 To plant a beautiful memorial tree in memory of Robbin, please visit our Tree Store.

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