Robert J. Clayton M.D.

1935 - 2018

Robert J. Clayton M.D. obituary, 1935-2018, San Antonio, TX

Robert J. Clayton M.D.

1935 - 2018

BORN

1935

DIED

2018

Robert Clayton Obituary

Published by Porter Loring Mortuary McCullough on Oct. 20, 2018.
On October 20, 2018 the world lost a giant: a giant heart, whose love, patience and kindness knew no bounds; a giant of medicine, who helped pave the way for inclusion and early childhood intervention in the United States; and a giant smile that never waned, even in his sickest hour. Robert J. Clayton, age 83, passed away peacefully at his home in San Antonio, TX, surrounded by his family and beloved dogs Maggie and Shelby. Robert, known as Bob, was born on February 10, 1935 in Buffalo, NY, to Stanley and Mary Clayton. He graduated from SUNY Medical School in Buffalo, completing his pediatric residency at Buffalo Children's Hospital. After serving two years in the US Air Force Medical Corps at Westover Air Force Base, he completed a medical genetics fellowship at Johns Hopkins University. During his time at Hopkins he began a life-long passion for assisting children with developmental disabilities and their families. In 1969 he was the first to describe Byler Disease (Fatal Familial Intrahepatic Cholestasis) among Amish populations. As a professor at Georgetown University he was one of the early medical consultants for Project Head Start. From 1976 until his retirement in 2000, he served as pediatrics faculty at the University of Texas Health Science Center, San Antonio and was medical director of the Birth Defects Clinic at Santa Rosa Hospital. He helped start the Early Childhood Intervention Program in the State of Texas, a program which provides services for families with children from birth to age 3 with developmental delays and disabilities. He was also involved with the inception of the Brighton School, which at its founding served children with Down Syndrome. In his retirement he served for 6 years as a member of the Texas Medical Rangers. He also was a consultant on SSI disability appeals. He loved the Spurs and had a great interest in the history of WWII. In April he made his bucket-list trip to Scotland to visit family and the place where his father was born. Dr. Bob/Uncle Bob/Dad/Grandpa will be most remembered for his vision, vast intellect, patience, and kindness. He was a man who always made time, no matter how busy he was, to sit, talk and try to solve the problems of the world. In the words of a 10-year-old neighbor's school essay, "Uncle Bob talks slowly and thinks long and hard before answering a question. He shows an interest in people, but most of all in children and animals. He always finds time to be nice to children like when he mows the lawn he stops to listen to kids who come to talk." His family certainly believes that the world is a better place for him having been a part of it. Bob is survived by his beloved wife of 62 years, Joan; daughter, Mari Glamser-Samuel (Dave) from Kerrville, TX; son, Robert Clayton (Brenda) from Dallas, TX; grandsons, Austin Glamser, M.D, and Matthew Dreher; and sister Gail Evans (David), from Apache Junction, AZ. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Brighton School.

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October 31, 2018

David McFarland posted to the memorial.

October 31, 2018

Marian Sokol posted to the memorial.

October 31, 2018

Maria Castillo posted to the memorial.

David McFarland

October 31, 2018

Farewell Dr. Clayton. My thoughts and best wishes to Joan, Mari, and Bobby.

Marian Sokol

October 31, 2018

Joan... my heart and sympathy go out to you and your family. Bob was unpretentiously "amazing"! I recall moving into an office adjacent to his at Santa Rosa's Ambulatory Care Center in 1982, as we had just received a grant to launch Any Baby Can. His wisdom about children with special needs...and most importantly, the impact on the family...was beyond anything that we could learn from a textbook. Our community and our world is blessed by the decades of care and compassion that he shared with fragile children and families, and the education that he provided for those around him. Deepest Sympathy....
Marian Sokol, San Antonio October 31, 2018

Maria Castillo

October 31, 2018

Joan, May you find comfort in the loving memories of have lived a lifetime with your loving husband who will always be a part of you. My prayers are with you and your family.

Donna Ferry

October 30, 2018

Our family was fortunate to have met Dr Clayton when my daughters were young. Dr Clayton was very compassionate and kind. He brought hope to so many parents and children, we are very grateful. He started the SHIP group at UUMC over 30 years ago. Many of us have stayed in touch because of this and have developed lifelong friendships.
May God bless you all during this time of loss and sadness, Donna Ferry

October 29, 2018

I was fortunate to have worked with Dr. Clayton at Santa Rosa Children's Ambulatory Care Center. I was always impressed by his compassion for special needs students and their families. When I decided to finish my college degree, he encouraged me to become a special education teacher. He always supported me while I was attending UTSA. After graduation he gave me the biggest hug and I felt that he was very proud of me. I was so grateful that he was with me in my decision and always asked me to "keep in touch". Rest in peace dear friend.
Bernadette Navarro

Sunny Stephens

October 29, 2018

Dr. Clayton's death is particularly sad for me. We had a common appreciation and love for children with spina bifida and their families. He understood that the medical community had done an unparalleled job of saving the lives of these special children, and that it was up to other professionals to help them to live productively in this world. My sincerest condolences to his family and everyone who loved him.
Sunny Stephens, Ph.D.

Sarah Schneider

October 29, 2018

I met Dr. Clayton in 2011 as an attorney appearing before SSA on disability cases. I was always impressed by his intellect; his ability to make sense of and explain confusing medical evidence was uncanny. However, what impressed me far more was his compassion and thoughtfulness. From how he treated the children (the claimants in these cases), the parents, myself, and the SSA ALJs and staff, his warmth and kindness always shined through. My condolences to his family members, and my God bless you and keep you during this time of loss and sadness.

herman montalvo

October 28, 2018

I had the privilege and distinct honor to have worked alongside Dr. Clayton for over five years at the genetics clinic at Santa Rosa Hospital. The many clinical and interpersonal skills I learned from his interaction with patients and colleagues have served me well over to this day. He treated me with the utmost respect as he did the most disenfranchised of our community. A cute anecdote: whenever I would call for him while at his clinic at the old Robert B. Greene, I would ask for Dr. Roberto Clayton. No one ever questioned it or corrected me ... he fit right in. Rest in Peace Dr. Clayton. Descanse en Paz Dr. Roberto Clayton.

Gerry Autsch

October 28, 2018

God rest his soul....was so sorry to hear about Dr Claytons passing.....but am so thankful to have known him and been a part of all of the brown bag lunches spent learning from this beautiful person...He dedicated his life to serving the parents of children with genetic differences.....and we appreciated his support and acceptance.....

gala rabalais

October 28, 2018

They are special--those who are called to the arts of healing. And, they are special--those who love them. For it is both the easiest and the hardest thing, to love a physician. May God shelter you in the curve of His arm and steady your steps as you learn to walk again without this man you love. Blessings and peace. And love.

Nell Lyssy

October 28, 2018

Thank you Dr. and Mrs. Clayton for your years of dedication to the young children of San Antonio. I fondly remember you working in partnership with the San Antonio Head Start program. My sympathy to your family on your great loss.
Nell Lyssy

Dorene Hill

October 28, 2018

Thoughts and prayers to Joan and family. He was truly a fine man, friend and wonderful doctor. What a contribution he has made in so many lives. I have so many fond memories of our friendship and being neighbors at Westover AFB. Remembering you all in my prayers......Fondly, Dorene Hill

David & Mary Stephenson

October 27, 2018

In loving memory of a truly remarkable man. We will miss him.
David and Mary Stephenson

Carolyn McLerran

October 27, 2018

I have SO SO MANY fond memories of Dr. Clayton dating back to the late 70's. I worked with him professionally and always had such great admiration for him. He was an absolutely BRILLIANT man whose ideas were always so far ahead of his time....yet so timely. He made such a huge impact on the care of fragile children in Texas. I loved his smile....his LENGTHY pauses during our conversations when you just sat there for several minutes while he gathered his thoughts to respond!!! AND.....I was fortunate to know him personally. He and Joan were such a source of support for me when my husband was going through a major illness. AND then Bob became our Santa Claus every Christmas eve for at least 10 years....way beyond the time that our 2 children believed in Santa!! Dr. Clayton was one of a kind....he definitely made this world a better place. I am a better person for having known him. Love and hugs to Joan and the family.
Carolyn McLerran

SANDRA PHILLIPS

October 26, 2018

Thoughts and prayers. Love and Hugs . Wendell and Sandy Phillips

Joyce Hawthorn

October 26, 2018

We were so blessed to meet Bob in May of this year in his ancestral homeland of Scotland. So so pleased we met him and that he got to make the trip. Such a kind, gentle intelligent person. Our love to family - you are so lucky to have had him in your life.

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