Robert Barry "Bob" Fernald

Robert Barry "Bob" Fernald obituary, Mount Desert, ME

Robert Barry "Bob" Fernald

Robert Fernald Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Jordan-Fernald Funeral Home - Mount Desert on May 15, 2023.

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Robert Barry Fernald, 89, died on Friday, May 12, 2023, at an Ellsworth hospital. He was born March 25, 1934, in the village of Somesville in the town of Mt. Desert, a son of John S. and G. Pauline (Crosby) Fernald.
Bob grew up in Somesville and attended Mt. Desert schools, graduating from high school in Northeast Harbor in 1952. He continued his studies at New England Institute of Anatomy in Boston, becoming a licensed funeral director and embalmer in Maine in 1955. He married Jean Elaine Graves in 1956. He served in the U.S. Army from 1956 to 1958 at Fort Knox, in Kentucky, where he met Peter Blynn and Larry Mauriello and their wives Shirley and Dot who became lifelong friends to Bob and Jean.
As a funeral director and businessman in Somesville, Bob worked alongside his cousins Thomas J. Fernald and William C. Fernald. He stayed active as a licensed funeral director for 63 years, working for 35 of those years with his daughter Lauri at Jordan-Fernald.
Bob was a Mason for more than sixty years. As an Anah Shriner, he belonged to the Anah Convertibles Unit, serving as its treasurer for 25 years. He was a member of the Royal Order of Jesters Court 150.
He was an original member of the board of directors at the Somes-Meynell Wildlife Sanctuary in Somesville. He served on the board of directors at Union Trust Company of Ellsworth. He also belonged to the Lions Club. He was sexton at Brookside Cemetery for more than 50 years.
Bob loved living in Somesville, where he and Jean supported local organizations including Acadia Repertory Theatre, Somesville Library Association, Somesville Landing Corporation, and Mt. Desert Historical Society.
As a student, Bob attended many Boston Red Sox games at Fenway Park, where he became a fan. He followed the Red Sox for the rest of his life.
He is survived by his loving wife of 66 years, Jean G. Fernald of Mt. Desert; son, Barry P. Fernald and daughter-in-law Sarah A. Ballingal of Wepham, Arundel, West Sussex, UK; daughter, Lauri E. Fernald and partner Margaret M. Sumpter of Mt. Desert; grandson, Alan C. Fernald of Portland, ME; granddaughter Madeleine L. Fernald and her husband Tyler L. Ferguson of Rochester, MN, and great-grandson Leo Fernald Ferguson; grandchildren's mother, Diane M. Banfield; his nephews, Cecil Fernald and wife Julie, Stephen Fernald and wife Wanda; niece, Penny Fernald; special "nephew" Jay Fernald and wife Casey and long time family friend Pamela Bourque. He was predeceased by his brother John S. Fernald, Jr. and sister-in-law Betty W. Fernald.
Friends are invited to call 4 p.m. - 6 p.m. on Friday, May 19, 2023, at Jordan-Fernald, 1139 Main Street, Mt. Desert, ME 04660. A celebration of Bob's life will be held at 11 a.m. on Saturday, May 20, 2023, at St. Mary's-by-the-Sea Episcopal Church, 35 South Shore Road, Northeast Harbor, ME 04662, with interment at Brookside Cemetery in Somesville.
Those who desire may make contributions in Bob's memory to Maine Community Foundation, for the A.C. Fernald Family Fund (which supports Somesville charities), 245 Main Street, Ellsworth, ME 04605 or Mt. Desert Lodge #140, A.F. & A.M., P.O. Box 315, Mt. Desert, ME 04660.
Condolences may be expressed at www.jordanfernald.com.

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Laura Smallidge

May 17, 2023

To the entire Fernald Family and to Jean, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy and heartfelt condolences on Bob´s passing. He has left a wonderful family legacy to all of us and he was a genuine leader in his chosen profession. This community is extremely lucky to have had him and the family business in this area, for generations to tend to the needs of our families when we needed it most. Thank you, Bob for all you did in your lifetime!! Rest in Peace I will miss our meetings, greetings, and visits at the Post Office and other venues in Mount Desert

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