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Robert Lyder Obituary

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Robert H. Lyder. Pop Pop, age 83 of Coventry, CT, passed away peacefully surrounded by his loving family on Sunday, December 14th at St. Francis Hospital in Hartford, CT.

Bob was born in Rockville Centre, N.Y. to George and Murial Lyder on March 12, 1942. As a graduate of Adelphi University, he went on to have an accomplished CPA career operating his own firm for decades.

Bob had a fierce passion for golf and always seemed to be playing or practicing. He was always eager to talk about his love for golf. Bob also loved his yard, and his labor kept it tidy, beautiful and well respected. It was very much a source of pride.

Pop Pop was a devoted family man. Always a giver of good advice while also making sure we were all on the right path were continuous gifts he gave. Quite simply, Bob was a good and solid man. You knew where you stood with him and what he valued. If you were Bob's friend, you were a friend for life.

Bob is survived by his children, Jennifer, Christopher and David (spouse, Deirdre). His loving partner of forty-six years, Marie, and her children, Dana

(spouse, David), Dennis, Daniel and David. His grandchildren, Emma, Madison, Lindsey, Erin, Sullivan, Ryan and Ava. His great grandson, Atticus. And his partner in crime and close friend, Bill Hall.

Bob loved his family and friends very much. He had a deep well of love that was rarely publicly shown, however, Bob's actions always spoke so loudly you just knew how much he cared. He will be missed tremendously and remembered always.

Next time you dine out please overtip your waitstaff in Bob's name. He would have wanted that as he himself did this on a daily basis.

Please consider making a donation in Bob's name to the Brain Injury Alliance Connecticut at www.biact.org.

A Celebration of Life will be held on Sunday, December 21, 2025, from 1:00 pm to 3:00 pm at Potter Funeral Home.

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Published by the Chronicle on Dec. 19, 2025.

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January 18, 2026

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Norman and Linda Latulippe

December 22, 2025

Well we were upset when we got the news of Bob's passing! He has been our accountant and friend for more years than I can remember. That's what getting old is all about! Bob was an amazing person and was always there if you needed him. So very sorry Marie and the family for your loss. Will keep you in our prayers. I am sure Bob is in heaven balanceing the books up there! Bob get our books correct up there so we can get in with a ZERO Balance.

Howard Haberern

December 22, 2025

Bob was my accountant and friend for decades. I will truly miss our great friendly conversations.

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