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Robert Mattei Obituary
Robert John Mattei, 74, passed away peacefully on January 4, 2026, in Hospice Care at Yale New Haven Hospital, Connecticut, the city where he was born.
Born on September 29, 1951, in New Haven to Angelo "Bushy" Mattei and Mary Mattei Ricciuti, Robert was raised in a home rooted in love. He attended St. Aedan's Catholic School and graduated from Hill House High School before continuing his education at the University of New Haven.
Robert dedicated over three decades of his professional life as a production associate at The Marlin Firearms Company. His commitment to hard work and quiet diligence earned him the respect of colleagues and friends alike.
A man of deep Catholic faith, Robert lived each day guided by compassion, humility, and the Golden Rule. He was known for his kind and gentle spirit, always choosing to see the good in others. His unwavering devotion to family was evident in every aspect of his life.
Robert found immense joy in spending time with his loved ones. He dearly loved his daughters Christine Mattei Lockwood and Catherine Marie Mattei. The bond he shared with Christine and her husband Tommy brought him great comfort and pride. Though preceded in death by Catherine, her memory remained ever-present in his heart.
He cherished his role as a grandfather to Luke Robert Anderson and took great delight in the lives of his step-grandchildren Morgan Gee (Nathaniel), and T.J. Lockwood and his fiancée (Danielle). His sister Michele Marek and her husband Ray held a special place in his heart, as did his niece Alexis Mittelmann (Matthew and Zoey)and nephew Raymond Marek III (Kyle Oglesbee).
Outside of work and family, Robert enjoyed fishing, whistling tunes that reflected his lifelong love of music, listening to favorite songs that stirred memories old and new, and practicing his faith with quiet devotion. Whether casting a line or sharing a laugh with family members around the table, he found beauty in life's simple pleasures.
Robert will be remembered not only for what he did but for who he was-a man whose warmth radiated through every interaction; whose humility inspired those around him; whose steadfast love for family anchored generations; whose faith illuminated even the darkest days.
May Robert John Mattei's memory bring peace to all who knew him and continue to inspire kindness for years to come.
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Joe Testa
January 24, 2026
RIP old friend
Carl Walters
January 13, 2026
RIP my friend..
I´ll miss our frequent phone conversations...always positive regardless of situation, and always grateful to God for his grace and mercies...
Looking forward to catching up with you again in heaven-and hearing how many of the deep philosophical and theological questions we pondered together over the years you have found answers to!
God bless
Joan
January 13, 2026
I attended Hillhouse with “Bobby” & will always remember what a nice & kind person he was. In fact, we share the same birthday. Rest in peace.
Michele Marek
January 13, 2026
I will always be grateful to Bobby for instilling in me the value of working to achieve "The Impossible Dream" which his life and faith exemplified. From his early days growing up in New Haven, being the Drum Major of the Emerald Cadets, and raising a beautiful family, Bobby always strove to do his best despite many challenges, and I can see from reading this site, that he shared this special part of him with many others. I thank him for being a wonderful brother to me, a dedicated son to our parents, a loving father and grandfather and so much more. I miss you Bob but your spirit lives on and I believe you truly are in a better place now with Cathy by your side and the rest of us celebrating your life until it is our time to join you. Love, Michele.
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Colleen Reyes
January 13, 2026
Christine- I´m so sorry for your loss. I have such fond memories of your dad. He was such a kind man. May he rest in peace.
Sam Celone
January 12, 2026
To an old friend from our EC days. it was a pleasure knowing you. RIP Bobby.
Gary Gabrielle
January 12, 2026
For my dearest friend bobby, where do I begin? My life is blessed to call you my friend, 'brother' mentor and confident. From school ways to 'marching days', and 'oh-so-many double dates' with our girlfriends, these memories I will never forget. Mostly I'll never forget you asking me to be Best Man at your Wedding! I've taken, honored and cherished this 'gift' my entire life. Peace to you and Michele, love, gabe, nyc 1/12/26
Chrissie
January 12, 2026
Gene Shimshock
January 12, 2026
As with many others, I remember Bobby fondly during our days with the Emerald Cadets. I still remember the days of practicing in West Rock Park and Amity Shopping Center and his leadership and friendship on all those summer weekend competitions. RIP Bobby...
Meghann Kowalchik
January 12, 2026
Christine and Luke,
I´m so sorry for your loss. He treasured his time with you and was so proud of you both. It´s so nice to read all of the comments here and hear about all the lives he touched and all the fun he had.
Chrissie
January 12, 2026
Mark Vece
January 11, 2026
RIP old friend
Bonnie Carrignan
January 11, 2026
I had the honor of having known Bob as a friend, neighbor and dog lover. Bob was so kind to have me over for tea and pastry and wonderful conversation. Bob, you will be missed but never forgotten. I know you are now with our Lord and Savior and all that comes with, peace & love to you Bob.
Elizabeth Piper
January 11, 2026
A word from Mr GEORGE SULICK
Bob was always a good friend and I will miss our 2:33 coffee time R.I.P
Eileen Hudak
January 11, 2026
Heartfelt Condolences to Bobby´s family.
From the days in EC and your phone calls every 5 weeks for the past 30+ years (your timeframe) I treasure and will miss. RIP my friend
Ray Luedee jr
January 11, 2026
My sister Cheryl and I marched with EC early to late 60´s with Bobby at the helm, I can still hear that " Mark Time, March",
It was so powerful and deep!
RIP Bob.
Chrissie
January 10, 2026
Ken Wirtz
January 10, 2026
Bobby led us both on and off the field. His devotion to the Emerald Cadets was nothing short of intense. I pray he is with the God he loved so much
Amanda Camp
January 10, 2026
Bob our little neighborhood will never be the same without you. For over 20 years you showed our community nothing but kindness. Always had nice words to say whenever you passed by. You will truly be missed.
Fred
January 10, 2026
I had the pleasure of knowing Bob for two decades I will miss our weekly phone calls,
we always left our conversation on the positive note.
He always look forward to Sunday coffee 2:33.
Bob always loves telling a good joke.
He was a good friend. He will be missed dearly.
Karl Wagner
January 9, 2026
Bobby and I were in the Emerald Cadets together and huge Beatles fans. We would many hours trying to figure out the meanings behind each and every new song released. Bobby was always a fun guy to be around! RIP Bobby
Matt
January 9, 2026
Bobby was the most decent man I´ve ever known. I will miss our Monday phone calls and your birthday visits. Bobby would always bring a box of wine on my birthday, while we would sit and reminisce our childhood memories of growing up together in Westville. I will miss you Bobby, my dear friend may you rest in peace.
Anita Sabellico Holtzman
January 9, 2026
I had the pleasure of knowing Bobby growing up in Westville and attending St Aedan's School. I was a member of the Emerald Cadets while he was our drum major. He was such a kind and caring soul. My condolences to his sister Michele and Mattei family.
Mo Haddock
January 9, 2026
I had the pleasure of marching with him in the Emerald Cadets and his sister Michelle. May you now rest in peace Bobby.
Steve L
January 9, 2026
Bob will be missed deeply at the Stonegate Community he called home for many many years. He was a wonderful neighbor who had kind words for everyone and always made sure he left everyone with a compliment to brighten their day. He lived according to his faith and shared love and encouragement to all. We all feel his loss in our lives.
Joan Marshall Londona
January 9, 2026
My deepest condolences to Bobby´s family and friends. I had the pleasure of spending much of my younger years with Bobby while marching with the Emerald Cadets along with his sister Michelle. He was such a fantastic Drum Major. I was lucky enough to visit with him at one of our reunions. You will live on forever in our hearts and memories. God Bless you Bobby, may you RIP. .
Joe Pellecchia
January 9, 2026
Many fond memories of Bobby and the emerald cadets
Christine Lockwood
January 9, 2026
Diana & Mark Dobuzinsky
January 9, 2026
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Bob was a wonderful person. Always had kind words for everyone. He will be missed.
Carolyn, Corey, Carmella (Mella), Carolina (Lina), and Corrado (or Corrando
January 9, 2026
Bobby, you were an amazing man... Very kind, caring and unforgettable! You were a very religious and wonderful person! My family holds so many memories- from your kindness to your laughter- of you and we will always cherish them, as we will always cherish you and our friendship! You were not just a dear friend, but you were family. As Corey always called you, you were our Brother Bobby! The kids will always remember our dinners at Tolli's and all your "yeah, yeah, yeahs!" Corey and I will always remember your advice and your famous jokes, especially "going to the roof with the hose and watering the grass to trick it to thinking it's raining!" We know you are with your daughter and the "illustrious " Sage as well as Buddy, and the many others you always kept in your heart and prayers... You, Bobby, will forever be missed and loved by The Lippolis Family and you will forever hold a spot in our hearts... We know you are with the Lord now and for infinity and may you now have the peace you so deserve. We will miss you always, Brother Bob. God and Peace be with you!
Shari ives
January 9, 2026
Bob was a treasure ..He´ll be forever missed in the Stonegate community
Christine Lockwood
January 8, 2026
Elizabeth Piper
January 8, 2026
You will be missed ,
SUNDAYs at 2:33 will never be the same
The standing appt for nearly two decades
The conversations over a cup of coffee about who saw " sightings : (an inside thing),you going from bike to car to single item eating to over extended hotel stays gave us something to talk about and your extended kindness to others was something you did naturally, we're going to miss you Mr Bob ,until we meet again see you at 2 :33 ill be waiting and it will be your turn ,love yah man
Christine Lockwood
January 8, 2026
Mark Disler
January 7, 2026
I grew up next door to Bobby, Michele, Bushy and Mary. From first grade through college and beyond until our group of seven kids on Glen View Terrace and Lawncrest Road went separate ways, Bobby was the oldest among us and really the leader. Stickball and touch football in the street. Kite flying and butterfly catching, Little League baseball. Snow forts and snow fights. I cannot separate my growing up from Bobby and memories of so many fun times. A real anchor for me. I cannot improve upon the wonderful tribute to him here, but I can confirm all of it. I am very sad. Rest in eternal piece, Bobby.
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