Robert F. Selvidio

WESTERLY - Robert F. Selvidio, of Westerly, passed away peacefully at Westerly Hospital on Friday, January 23, 2026, at the age of 72. Born in Westerly, he was the son of the late Joseph F. and Elena (DeMario) Selvidio.

Bob grew up in Westerly and was a graduate of Westerly High School. He was also a communicant of Immaculate Conception Church. He worked for many years at Posi-Seal and Harris Graphics, and later retired from Electric Boat in Groton. He faced many challenges throughout his life due to a traumatic brain injury sustained as a youth at the age of 15 after being struck by a car. Despite this, he remained resilient and was best known for his humor and love of music.

A talented and well-known drummer, Bob began playing drums at a young age and went on to perform in many bands throughout Connecticut and Rhode Island. He was often seen playing at Westerly's 'First Night' celebrations and was a devoted fan of Buddy Rich. Bob also had a gift for making people laugh - if you ever encountered him, you were likely to leave smiling, usually with a new joke to share.

Bob is survived by his daughter, Catherine (Kate) Giroux, and his grandson, Jasper Giroux; his brother, Michael (Lucille) Selvidio; his sister, Marilyn Ware; his former wife, Donna Parsons Selvidio; and several nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his brother, Joseph R. Selvidio; his brother-in-law, Richard S. Ware; and his former wife, Cathyann Schmidt.

Special thanks are extended to the entire staff of Apple Rehab Clipper Nursing Home for their compassionate care of Bob over the past several years.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Bob's name to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, P.O. Box 1999, Memphis, TN 38101.

Calling hours will be held on Saturday, February 7, from 2:00 to 4:30 p.m., followed by a memorial service at 4:30 p.m., at Buckler-Johnston Funeral Home, 121 Main Street, Westerly, RI.

For online condolences, please visit www.buckler-johnston.com