Joseph A. Misto Sr.

WESTERLY - Joseph A. 'Chief' Misto Sr., age 89, passed away peacefully at home, surrounded by his loving family. He was the devoted husband of 63 years to his lifelong partner and beloved wife, Gayle (Reid) Misto. Their marriage was a true partnership built on love, faith, and family. Together, they shared decades of laughter, support, and devotion, inspiring all who knew them.

Born in Providence, Rhode Island, Joseph was the son of the late Louis Misto, Sr. and Rosemary Palumbo Misto. He is survived by his sister-in-law Estelle Misto and was predeceased by his brother, Dr. Louis Misto Jr and sister, Rosemary Sanquedolce.

Joseph grew up in Danielson, Connecticut, before moving to Westerly while in grammar school. A proud graduate of Westerly High School, he remained deeply connected to his hometown and its people throughout his life.

Family was always at the center of Joseph's life. He was a loving father to Joseph A. Misto Jr. and wife Kara, and Dr. Holly Misto, a proud grandfather to Everett Misto and James Misto, and a cherished presence to his extended family of many nieces and nephews. His family and many dear friends brought him endless joy, and he was a constant source of guidance, encouragement, and unwavering love.

Service to others was a defining part of who he was. Professionally, he devoted many years to The Westerly Jewelry, rising to manager and becoming a trusted figure in the community. Known for his skill, integrity, and personal care, he helped countless customers select the perfect diamonds to mark life's special moments.

His commitment to service extended to the Westerly Fire Department. Beginning as a volunteer firefighter with the Ladder Company, he rose through the officer ranks and was later elected Fire Chief, a role he deeply loved and carried with great pride and responsibility. He led with dedication, compassion, and thoughtful innovation, always protecting and serving his community. As a member of the Rhode Island Fire Chiefs Association and the New England Fire Chiefs Association, his leadership left a lasting mark on both the department and the town he loved.

A kind and compassionate man, Joseph was known for his quick wit and warm personality. He had a natural gift of conversation and could connect easily with anyone he met. Whether speaking with a lifelong friend or stranger, he genuinely enjoyed learning about other people and made others feel truly seen and valued. He was also an animal lover, whose affection for pets reflected his gentle and caring nature.

In retirement, Joseph and his wife spent their winter months in Florida, enjoying life side by side. The rest of the year was devoted to time with his family and friends, tending to his vegetable and flower gardens, caring for his yard, and enjoying the companionship of his beloved animals. Over the years, he especially loved watching his children and grandchildren play sports, always cheering them on with great pride. An avid sports fan, he faithfully cheered on the New York Yankees and the New England Patriots.

Joseph will be remembered for his devotion to family, faith, and community, and a life lived with humility, generosity and grace. He will be dearly missed by all who knew and loved him.

The family extends their heartfelt gratitude to all who offered love, support, and friendship throughout Joseph's life. Many thanks to Hope Hospice, Father Josemaria Barbin and Father Charbel Boutstnay for their compassionate care and support during his final weeks.

Funeral arrangements are entrusted to Gaffney Dolan Funeral Home, 59 Spruce Street, Westerly, RI. Visiting hours will be held Friday, February 13 from 4:00-6:00 pm. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, February 14 at 11:00 am at St. Pius Church, 44 Elm Street Westerly. There will be no procession from the funeral home to church. Burial will be private. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation in Joseph's memory to Hope Hospice of Rhode Island, 1085 N. Main Street., Providence, RI 02904 or Stand Up For Animals 33 Larry Hirsch Lane, Westerly, RI 02891. For online condolences please visit www.gaffneydolanfuneralhome.com

May Joseph rest in eternal peace, embraced by God's love, and may his memory be a blessing to all.