Robert O. Wessler

Robert O. Wessler November 18, 1930 – June 25, 2025
Robert (Bob) O. Wessler, 94, of New Lisbon, Wisconsin, passed away peacefully on June 25, 2025, in the beautiful home he built, surrounded by the woods, wildlife, and family he cherished.
Born on November 18, 1930, in Tarnevole Germany, Robert lived a life marked by perseverance, quiet strength, and deep love for his family. After arriving in the United States following World War II, he worked on a farm while adapting to American life and learning English. He went on to serve in the U.S. Army, working in heavy machinery and construction, skills that became a cornerstone of his life's work.
Robert spoke four languages fluently, a reflection of his sharp mind and ability to adapt. His journey from post-war Europe to building a lasting home in Wisconsin stands as a testament to his determination and work ethic.
It was in the U.S. that he met and married Erna Wessler, the love of his life. Together, they settled in New Lisbon, where they created a home full of warmth, surrounded by trees, gardens, and the sound of family. Erna preceded him in death, but the home they built together remained the heart of Robert's life until the very end.
Robert was a gifted woodworker, creating intricate layered, mixed-grain bowls and vases right up until the month before he passed. He remained active and creative to the very end. His lathe still holds a partially finished bowl, a quiet testament to a life always in motion. He gave his wooden pieces as gifts to those he loved or deeply appreciated, each piece a reflection of his craftsmanship and generosity. One of his favorite routines was filling the hummingbird feeder outside his picture window and watching the birds flutter in, simple moments that brought him great peace. Enjoying a meal together, telling stories and good jokes, he was a steady, loving presence across four generations.
He is survived by his sons Herbert Wessler (Christy) and Jerry Wessler; grandchildren Philip Wessler (Elizabeth), Robin Sobieski, Karen Szponder (Mark), Jenivieve Elly (Jonathan), Miles Wessler, and Anastacia Gunn-Ulrich (Trevor); and great-grandchildren Lucas Elly, Liam Elly, Lorelei Elly, Leia Gunn-Ulrich, and Link Ulrich.
Robert's legacy is one of grit, grace, and love, a life built from the ground up, shaped by hard work, devotion to family, and a steadfast belief in what could be created with his own two hands. His faith in God was central to who he was. He sat in the front row of church on Sunday's and opened his home with open arms to any family member in need of shelter or a good meal. He will be deeply missed and forever remembered.
"A life well-lived doesn't end. It echoes in every handmade gift, every family gathering, and every moment of peace in a place called home."
Funeral Services will be held on Tuesday, July 1st, 2025 at 12:00p.m. at the Hare Funeral Home (217 W. Pearl St.) in New Lisbon. Relatives and friends are invited to a visitation on Tuesday at the Hare Funeral Home from 10:30a.m. until the time of service. Paster Mike Postell presiding. Burial with military honors will take place in the Mauston Cemetery. The Hare Funeral Home in New Lisbon is assisting the family with arrangements. Online condolences are available at www.harefuneralhome.com