Roger H. Bothen

Roger H. Bothen

April 14, 1940 – October 20, 2025

Roger H. Bothen, a patient warrior whose life was defined by humility, quiet service, and unwavering kindness, was born on April 14, 1940, in Dayton, Ohio, and passed peacefully on October 20, 2025, surrounded by loved ones.

Roger proudly served his country as an Airman Second Class in the United States Air Force from 1958 to 1962 during the height of the Cold War. Fluent in four languages, he served as a radio intercept operator and analyst, using his linguistic skill to intercept and interpret radio and radar communications in defense of United States interests in Europe. In August 1961, Roger was stationed in Berlin during the construction of the Berlin Wall — a moment he later described as the most palpably tense experience of both his career and his life. His military service, marked by vigilance, restraint, and resolve, reflected the steady character that would define him thereafter.

Following his honorable discharge, Roger returned to his native Dayton, where he devoted his life to service rooted in empathy and lived experience. Raised in an orphanage and placed in multiple foster homes, Roger understood firsthand the challenges faced by children growing up in disenfranchised and disadvantaged environments. Rather than allowing those experiences to harden him, he transformed them into a lifelong commitment to advocacy.

Roger dedicated decades of service to organizations including Big Brothers Big Sisters, the Boy Scouts of America, the Ohio Veterans Children’s Home, and St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital. Through his time, energy, and generous financial support, he quietly improved the lives of countless children, adolescents, and young adults. He believed deeply that every child deserves dignity, stability, and someone who shows up — consistently and without condition.

Outside of his advocacy work, Roger found joy in the natural world. He was an avid fisherman, hiker, and lover of animals, as well as a strong advocate for health through physical activity. In 1987, he completed a thru-hike of the Appalachian Trail from April through September — a personal achievement that reflected his endurance, patience, and reflective spirit.

Roger is survived by his “Little” brothers of 47 years, Rick Schaefer and Robert Schaefer, relationships that began through mentorship and grew into lifelong family bonds. He is also survived by Piper, his beloved dog and constant companion, who regarded Roger as her favorite human — a role he fulfilled with ease.

Roger Bothen lived without pretense and served without fanfare. His legacy is not measured in accolades, but in lives steadied, paths redirected, and children who grew up knowing that someone believed in them. He will be remembered as a patient warrior — humble and true, forever kind.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Roger’s memory to Big Brothers Big Sisters, St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital, or to a children’s advocacy organization of the donor’s choice, in honor of his lifelong dedication to the well-being of disadvantaged youth.