Ronald J. Bender

Ronald J. Bender obituary, Wilmington, DE

Ronald J. Bender

Ronald Bender Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by McCrery & Harra Funeral Home and Crematory - Concord Pike on Jul. 16, 2025.

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Ronald J. Bender, 70, passed away on July 13, 2025 in Wilmington, DE.
Born on August 6, 1954, Ronald lived a full life marked by enduring family connections and deep roots in both Delaware and Florida. He was the beloved husband of Lynn Wheatley and the devoted son of Dolores Kuntzman of Florida. Ronald was preceded in death by his father, Joseph Bender Sr.
He is also remembered by his stepson, Jeffrey Wheatley Jr. of Bronx, NY; his brother Joseph Bender Jr. of Wilmington; and siblings Tom, Lisa, and Chris of Florida. His presence will be missed by all who knew him. A service will be planned at a later date.

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