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Ruth Smethers Obituary

Ruth Smethers

December 14, 1930 - November 28, 2025

Olathe, Kansas - Ruth Alice (Neff) Smethers was born December 14, 1930, in Washington, Kansas. Her family moved to Manhattan, Kansas, in 1940 where she completed her education, graduating from high school in 1948 and from K- State in 1951. She married Howard Smethers in 1951. Her first son, Fred, was born in Manhattan in 1954. They moved to Lansing Kansas that year. In 1955, her second son, Ted, was born. In 1957 a third son, Ed, was born. They moved to Olathe in 1958 and the fourth son, Ned, was born in 1959. They were named by their father because he thought rhyming names was cute. This was before women's liberation.

Ruth started teaching the same year Ned was born. Ruth and Howard taught in the same school - the first time that was permitted. Ruth taught pregnant - the first time that was permitted, too. Ruth taught Spanish in the Olathe School system for 35 years. She coached basketball and track but was also an athlete herself running and swimming.

Foreign languages were Ruth's primary interest. She studied Mandarin, Russian, French and Italian. Ruth and Howard traveled extensively in their RVs in Mexico, Canada and the United States. Ruth traveled to Europe and China.

Ruth passed away on Friday, November 28, 2025, at the age of 94. Ruth is survived by four sons: Fred (Eileen), Ted (Susan), Ed (Lisa), Ned (Anne); nine grandchildren and many great-grandchildren.

Celebration of Life services will be held at Penwell Gabel Funeral Home in Olathe on Saturday, January 10th, 2026, at 10:00am.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Kansas City Star from Dec. 24 to Dec. 28, 2025.

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Shauna Stewart Hougham

December 28, 2025

So sorry for your loss, sending my condolences, Shauna Stewart Hougham

Bob Vantuyl

December 27, 2025

Prayers to the family.

Susan Groszek Wolfe

December 25, 2025

Mrs. Smethers and her family were neighbors of my family in Olathe. Mrs. Smethers was also my beloved Spanish teacher all 3 years at OHS. She supported my love of Spanish and, to this day, I can still speak it fairly well and can translate Spanish in the movies for my family. I send her boys and husband my sincere condolences. May Mrs Smethers rest in peace.

Greg nelson

December 25, 2025

Grew up with the Smethers, the family was always inviting and had an open home. Condolences Ned and family.

Sam, Bee, Drew and Lex Ellington

December 25, 2025

Ruth and Howard are truly and sincerely wonderful. They will always be remembered. Forever in our memories.

Sam, Bee, Drew and Lex Ellington

December 25, 2025

Ruth and Howard are forever in our family. Truly and sincerely loved.

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