Ruth Stephens

Ruth Stephens obituary, Grand Rapids, MI

Ruth Stephens

Ruth Stephens Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Metcalf & Jonkhoff Funeral Service on Dec. 31, 2025.
Ruth Hagendor Stephens, age 96, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, December 30, 2025. She was born February 4, 1929 in Germany along with twin sister Hannelore. Ruth was the daughter of Karl and Johanna (Oestreich) Hagendor Ruth and Johanna immigrated from Germany to the United States where she would meet her future husband, Robert F Stephens. They married May 9, 1953 and established their life in Dearborn Heights, MI. Her drive and determination played an important role as she built a successful career as an Executive Secretary for the J.L. Hudson Company, also known to many as Hudson's. Once retired they moved North to Mecosta, MI. Here she really did not retire, but poured her life into volunteering at the church, the local library and even taught aquatic aerobics. After Bob passed, Ruth moved to Beacon Hill in Grand Rapids where she continued graciously volunteering her time at church and Meijer's Garden. It was here she built an extended family, played cards with her core group of friends, enjoyed the symphony and even worked at her local Costco. Her unwavering love for life, friends, family and God allowed her to live a fulfilling life.

Ruth is survived by her niece Christine (David) Shrewsbury; 6 great nieces and nephews, Erich (Holly) Shrewsbury, Kurtis (Carrie) Shrewsbury, Kalvin Shrewsbury, Chelsea (Nick) Younce, Rurik (Nicole) Hamer, and Dustin Hamer. Ruth was preceded in death by her husband Robert, Karl and Johanna (Parents), Hannelore (Sister), Huwald (Brother), Detlef Hamer (Nephew), and Aspen Younce (Great Great Nephew).

The family will receive friends from 10-11am at Our Savior Lutheran Church, 2900 Burton St. SE, Grand Rapids, MI 49546 on Saturday, January 10, 2026. The funeral service will follow at 11AM with Reverend Jeremy Swem o ciating. Luncheon to follow after the service. Memorial Contributions may be made to the Morton Township Library, 110 South James Street, Mecosta, MI 49332, (231) 972-8315.

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Bonnie Thomas

February 2, 2026

My sympathy to the family of Ruth Stephen's. I met her when she volunteered at the front desk at Frederick Meijer Gardens. I worked each Monday at the front desk for nearly 10 yrs until May 2017. I was thinking of sending her a birthday card. She was most kind to me when she gave me a lunch retirement party along with 2 other volunteers at her home. Gos's peace. Bonnie Thomas

Karen Chesnut

January 6, 2026

Ruth was a great lady. She contributed her time and energy to Morton Township Library. She was dedicated to helping others. She will be missed.

Ken and Sharon Swathwood

January 6, 2026

Ruth was a big part of our church family at Chapel of the Lakes. She was loved by all.

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