Sandi Lerner

Sandi Lerner obituary, Kansas City, MO

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Sandi Lerner Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Louis Memorial Chapel - Kansas City on Mar. 26, 2026.
Sandra (Sandi) Miriam Lerner, age 86, of Overland Park, Kansas, passed away peacefully on March 25, 2026 at Village Shalom surrounded by her husband and children. She was born on November 13, 1939, in Chicago, Illinois, to Daniel (z"l) and Ruth Davis (z"l).

Sandi was the beloved wife of Kenneth Lerner, with whom she shared a dedicated marriage of 67 years. Sandi and Kenny met through a mutual friend in the summer of 1956 and were married on May 11, 1958, building a life centered on family, community, and service.

She was the devoted mother of daughter and son-in-law Lisa and Steve Siegel of Overland Park, Kansas; sons and daughters-in-law Jordan and Kathryn Lerner of Seattle, Washington; and Craig Lerner and Yael Cohen of Los Angeles, California. She was a proud and loving grandmother to Rochelle Hoover (Matt) of Overland Park, Daniel Siegel (Elissa Madonia, partner) of Denver, Colorado, Andrew Siegel (Shannon James) of New Glasgow, Nova Scotia, Kid Lerner and Emma Lerner of Brooklyn, New York, Greta and Irie Lerner of Northridge, California. She was also blessed with great-grandchildren Izzy Haarhoff and Barrett Hoover, both of Overland Park, Kansas.

Sandi is also survived by her brother and sister-in-law Michael and Ronda Davis of Des Moines, Iowa; her sister-in-law Tina Chapman; nieces, a nephew, great-nieces and nephew; and many dear friends and extended family members.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Daniel and Ruth Davis, and her brother-in-law Alan Chapman (z"l).

Sandi graduated from Southwest High School and worked for more than 40 years as a medical secretary in several specialties. She was especially proud of typing a medical dictionary for Dr. Charlie Poser. Later, she enjoyed working as an in-store demonstrator for Cuisinart, Rowenta, and other brands, where her warmth and enthusiasm made her a favorite with customers.

Service to others was the center of Sandi's life. She grew up at Beth Shalom, where she was confirmed and married, served as co-chair of the Lechem Committee, and was Treasurer of the Sisterhood Torah Fund. Later, she joined her daughter's family at Ohev Shalom, where she helped cater for her grandsons' Bar Mitzvah celebrations.

She was an avid volunteer throughout her life. She was active for many years in B'nai B'rith Girls, from her youth through adult leadership. She was a life member of the American Medical Center at Denver and Hadassah. She also gave her time to SevenDays, the Interfaith Council, ORT, and Village Shalom, where she volunteered in Memory Care, coordinated Kabbalat Shabbat services, taught Mah Jongg and bridge, led discussion groups and was a one woman welcome committee. Her dedication to volunteerism was recognized with the Kansas Volunteer of the Year award and the Ages of Excellence Award from Village Shalom.

Sandi loved animals, especially the dog of her heart, Lord Beau of Lamar - affectionately called "Beau Beau" - and her daughter's turtle, VanGo, whom she adored. She often dog sat for the pups that lived at Village Shalom.

Graveside services will be held on Sunday, March 29, 2026 1 pm at Mt. Carmel Cemetery, 5529 Ditzler Ave., Raytown, Missouri with a Zoom link available below.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Sandi Lerner Program Enrichment Fund at Village Shalom 5500 W. 123rd St., Overland Park, KS 66209 or Kansas City Hospice at 12000 Wornall Rd, Kansas City, MO 64145.

Sandi will be remembered for her kindness, humor, generosity, and tireless devotion to her family and community. Her life was a blessing to all who knew her, and her memory will forever remain in the hearts of those she loved.

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Upcoming Events

Mar

29

Service

1:00 p.m. - 2:00 p.m.

Graveside Service at Mt Carmel Cemetery

5529 Ditzler Avenue, Raytown, MO 64133

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