Sandra Lynne Rafos

Sandra Lynne Rafos, affectionately known as Sandy, passed away peacefully on November 13, 2023, in Marquette, MI, with her three daughters by her side.
She was born on February 8, 1936, in Akron, OH. Sandy lived a full and vibrant life filled with adventure, creativity, and spirit. Her adventurous nature led her across the globe, impacting countless lives along the way.
Sandy's pursuit of knowledge took her to Denison University and Michigan State University, where she earned a bachelor's degree in chemistry. Her academic pursuits, however, were just the beginning of her lifelong journey of learning and discovery.
In 1970, Sandy embarked on a remarkable career with the Institute of Cultural Affairs (ICA), a non-profit organization. Throughout her tenure with the ICA, which spanned nearly two decades, Sandy helped develop and facilitate programs designed to challenge social boundaries and resolve problems. She held multiple international posts, including assignments in Kenya, Nigeria, Tokyo, Hong Kong, Chicago, and Toronto, creating a global footprint of positive change. Among her many achievements were helping to develop an Imaginal Education program for inner-city preschools and Women's Advancement Programs for rural village women in Kenya. Her last post with the ICA was in Toronto, Ontario, where she and her beloved husband Bob, with whom she shared 61 years of marriage, made their permanent home.
In retirement, Sandy found delight in her newfound passions and community involvements. She and her husband Bob discovered a love for birding and travel. Summers were a time of joy and togetherness for Sandy and her family. They would gather at their cottage in Brutus, MI, where they enjoyed golfing, boating, campfires, and the beauty of nature.
Her creative spirit found an outlet in quilting, and she crafted beautiful quilts that not only won multiple ribbons but also warmed the hearts and homes of her family members. Sandy's spiritual journey led her to study Native American healing, participating in women's groups that celebrated traditions of drumming, storytelling, healing, and artistry. She was an active member of the Unitarian Universalist Church of Toronto, where she found a community that embraced her adventurous spirit and creative soul.
Sandy is survived by her three daughters and their spouses: Kimberly Ann Sirrine (Michael), Robin Christine Roy (Jay), and Sharon Lynn Rafos (Helen). She was a beloved grandmother to Eric Sirrine (Britt), Douglas Sirrine (Julia), Justin Roy (Adia), and Emma Roy. The legacy of her love and spirit continues in her eight great-grandchildren: Killian, Vada, Hazell, Arlo, Anne, Maggie, Ingrid, and Lillian. She also leaves behind her sister-in-law, Marjorie Rafos.
Sandy's life was a testament to her adventurous spirit, her creative passion, and her commitment to making a difference in the world.
The family would like to give special thanks and deep appreciation to the wonderful staff of Mill Creek Memory Care and Upper Peninsula Home Health and Hospice for their genuine and loving care.
A celebration of Sandy's life will be held at a later date.
In lieu of flowers, you may make a donation to a charity that is special to you in remembrance of Sandy.
Canale-Tonella Funeral Home and Cremation Services are assisting Sandy's family where memories and condolences may be shared at canalefuneral.com