Sandra Leigh Simpson

Sandra Leigh Simpson obituary, Rhinebeck, NY

Sandra Leigh Simpson

Sandra Simpson Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Dapson Chestney Funeral Home - Rhinebeck on Jun. 5, 2023.
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Sandra Leigh Simpson of Red Hook, N.Y. passed away at age seventy nine on May 17, 2023. With her daughter and friends by her side, Sandra passed with love and peace all around her.
Born on December 2, 1943 in Middletown, Ohio, Sandra was the
daughter of Dorothy Marie (Huddleston) and Major Frank Stuart.
As a child of a military family, she experienced relocations all across the country, living in states which included Ohio, Indiana,Texas, Washington and her beloved Virginia. Closest to her heart were Savannah, Yellow Stone National Park and the time spent living in the Mts. of Covington, Virginia. It was clear that Georgia and Virginia were where she lived her best life. It was Savannah Georgia where Sandra met her former husband, Robert L. Simpson who was stationed there with the Air Force. They married and moved to N.Y. and started their family.
Sandra worked into her seventies at The Astor Home For Children in Rhinebeck, N.Y. Previous workplaces included Kamen, Mula & Flynn CPA's, Northern Dutchess Hospital Lab, IBM Kingston and Bard College.
In Sandra's formative years she found comfort at church which she attended several times a week, sometimes twice a day. She always sang in the choir including at The Christ Church in Red Hook where she sang many solos. She also enjoyed participating at Taste Budds Open Mic night with her good friend Marie.
Sandra loved all living creatures especially her many schnauzers and Cockerspanials. Her dogs meant the world to her.
Sandy was a people person. She was out going, funny and kind. Her compassion extended to all who knew her and many who did not. Always ready with a smile, a hug, and words of support, Sandy always knew the right thing to say when a person needed it the most. She didn't drink but there was no better wing-woman than mom. Stopping into the Starr Bar, the local bowling alley or heading up to the Hunter Mountain Country Fest, she would light up the room. She was always ready with a smile on her face and laughter in her heart, ready to sing and dance.
Sandra is survived by her devoted daughter, Dawn Simpson, her sons Duane Simpson, Daniel Simpson and her beloved grandchildren Brittany Benson, Wesley Benson, Taylor Benson and Leia Simpson.
Sandra is also survived by her siblings Dewice E. Stuart and Elizabeth Cogan.
Sandra was preceded by her siblings Leo, Stuart and Mary Jo Stuart.
There will be no calling hours.
The family will be holding private services.
Arrangements are under the direction of Dapson Chestney Funeral Homes in Rhinebeck, N.Y.
Donations may be made to Nord (National Organization for Rare Diseases) or a local animal shelter.
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Brittany Leigh Benson

June 7, 2023

Sandra Leigh Simpson was my maternal Grandmother. I can't possibly express who she was, or what she was like in one small paragraph. She was there for everything. We got so much amusement out of making jokes around her, making her laugh, showing her all the insignificant things that amused us as kids. She was patient, and took her time with things, every movement she made was calm and careful. But she was strong and took care of me, and my brothers. She had so much to say about the stores she liked, the food she loved, the jewelry she had, and how life was for her growing up. But I couldn't help but feel like there was so much more to her life that she chose not to talk about. I wondered about that side of her. I still do.

I have more Peridot jewelry from her than I know what to do with because I was born in August, and she took every opportunity she could to bring little gifts and trinkets when she saw me. She was a Sagittarius, born in December like my brothers. Her favorite color was red, everything she owned, earrings, sweaters, scarves, she had at least one in red. She brought a feeling of family and togetherness just by being there. Christmas with her is burned into my memory. I could express myself freely around her. One of the very last times I spoke to her, she mentioned how I'm the one with the different colors in her hair. All the colors, she said. She laughed when she saw me, and my family. Then it quickly turned to tears. I had never seen her cry before. I thought, she must be overwhelmed with joy seeing us. I hope that's what she was feeling.

My last words with her were a few days before her passing. I was alone with her. I spoke to her, touched her hand...I swear she understood me. Heard me. Saw me. I know she has found peace. I believe she is now dedicated to watching over her family. Just as she did when she was here.
I will always love her.

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