Sara Pamella Bates

Sara Pamella Bates, a cherished mother, grandmother, sister, and friend, passed away peacefully on February 11, 2026, in Joplin, Missouri, at the age of 80. Born on March 29, 1945, in Port Angeles, Washington, to Joseph George and Irene Jincy (Wise) Wahleithner, Sara's life was a testament to the love and dedication she exhibited to all who knew her.

Sara's journey began in the beautiful Pacific Northwest, but her life's story was woven through the heartlands of America. She was a pillar of strength and compassion, leaving a legacy of unconditional love and cherished memories. Sara was preceded in death by her parents, her brother James Wahleithner, and her sisters Rosemary Jones and Evelyn Bennett. Her memory will be forever honored by her sister, Theresa Spence of Twin Falls, Idaho.

The matriarch of a large and loving family, Sara is survived by her children, Donald Mencke of Pryor, Oklahoma, John Hairl (Tangee) of Coolidge, Arizona, Judy Brengman of Anderson, Missouri, Albert Hairl (Deanna) of Claremore, Oklahoma, and Tommy Isbell of McCalister, Oklahoma. Her lineage includes her adored grandchildren, Donielle, Elizabeth, Charlie Jo, Robert, Brittanee, John, Jr., Emilee, Hallee, Dusti, Charity, Jennifer, Kaysha, Nathaysha, Miranda, Haley, Emma, and Lacey. The joy of her life extended to her 20 great-grandchildren and three great-great-grandchildren, each of whom she loved deeply.

A diligent worker, Sara dedicated over 20 years of service to the Simmons Poultry Plant in Jay, Oklahoma, where her work ethic and warm personality were well-known. Her commitment to her community was unwavering, as evidenced by her active involvement in the Hope Mission Church in Jay, Oklahoma. Sara's altruism shone brightly through her volunteer work at the Mission, where she helped those in need with the same care she bestowed upon her family.

Sara's interests were as rich and varied as the tapestry of her life. She found immense joy in the simple pleasures of spending time with her family and visiting Silver Dollar City in Branson, Missouri. A talented craftswoman, Sara took great pride in quilting, crocheting, and knitting, creating beautiful items that became treasured keepsakes for family and friends. Her competitive spirit and love for card games, particularly SkipBo, earned her the affectionate title of "self-proclaimed champ" among those who knew her best.

Sara Pamella Bates lived a life marked by devotion, kindness, and an unwavering faith. Her presence was a source of comfort and joy to all who were fortunate enough to cross her path. As we say farewell to this remarkable woman, we take solace in the knowledge that her spirit lives on through the countless lives she touched. Her love and her lessons will continue to guide us, and her memory will be cherished for generations to come.