Scott Banton Obituary
This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Tony McGeehan
February 16, 2011
To the Banton family,
I just wanted to let you know how saddened I was to hear of the passing of Scott. We were fraternity brothers at VCU and I have many fond memories of him. I'm very thankful that I had the chance to know Scott and will keep memories of him forever.
Martha Nicholas
February 11, 2011
Erika,
You have been inspirational with your strength and grace as you battled cancer right along Scotts side. You and the children are in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry for your pain and loss. So many people love you. Be certain to lean on them for whatever you need.
In Christ's love,
Martha Nicholas
Will Akers
February 11, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with the Banton family. What a great guy. He was my football coach at Hermitage in '85 & '86. I have many fond memories of those days. He was able to motivate us, as well as keep us laughing, all at the appropriate times. I saw him several times on the VCU campus and although I never met his children, I would definitely call him a 'proud papa.'
Caryl Self
February 9, 2011
Erika, Danielle and Erik- I have been fortunate enough to get to know your family through the Rudolph's. Cheryl is my sister. Our hearts are with you through this ordeal. Caryl, Peter, and Adrienne.
How you can show support
Send flowers
Consider sending flowers.
Add photos
Share their life with photo memories.
Plant trees
Honor them by planting trees in their memory.
Follow this page
Get email updates whenever changes are made.
Donate in Memory
Make a donation in memory of your loved one.
Share this page
Invite other friends and family to visit the page.
February 8, 2011
Erika,
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. I know no words to soften your loss at this time. Though it was much too short, you and your children were truely blessed to have a such a wonderful man in your life. If you ever need anything we are always here for you.
Love,
Tony and Alison
Jill Brannan
February 8, 2011
Scott was such a wonderful person. He always found humor in most any situation. For many years he made me laugh and I will always remember all the great times we shared together!
Sandy Meyers
February 8, 2011
Erika,
My prayers are with you and your children. May you hold tight to the memories you have of Scott. May God's Grace and Peace surround you at this time.
February 8, 2011
Erika, Danielle and Erik- We will miss Scott deeply. He was a kind, caring and fun loving guy to be around. Please know that we are here for all of you. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
The Riefner's
Cheryl Jernigan
February 8, 2011
Erika and Family,
What a special person Scott was to so many people. My friendship with you goes back to our school days but we only met Scott a couple of years ago. The blessing was ours. I will never forget his cute sense of humor. What an awesome husband and father he was. The love between you and Scott and the love he had for Erik and Danielle was so obvious the first time we met him. We will always remember his wonderful smile and his passion for his family and life itself. We will keep you in our prayers. I know he is at peace with God and will always be watching over you and the children. I pray God's blessings on you and your family. We love you.
Rusty McGuire
February 8, 2011
What a true hero. Scott taught me that courage does not just occur on the battlefield. The way he faced his last battle is an example for us all to follow. I am better for having had the blessing of knowing Scott.
Leslie Martin
February 8, 2011
Erika, Erik and Danielle,
Scott was the bravest man we knew. We feel truely blessed that he was our friend. We will miss him so much. I know he is in heaven looking down and watching over us. We just want to let you know that we love you guys and we are here for you.
Mike, Leslie and Lexi
February 8, 2011
Just a great guy. The world has lost a treasure.
Jeff Brannan
February 7, 2011
I feel lucky to have known Scott and I am going to miss my old tennis buddy. I will always remember the fun times and laughs we had together especially playing tennis. Scott was great at everything, especially being a friend, husband, father and son. We will miss you..
Terrye stouffer
February 7, 2011
Ericka Bobby and I only met Scott a few times, but he left a very lasting impression on us. he was a very plesant and caring person.I want to let you and your children know how deeply sorry we are for your loss.Remember even though he is in another place he will always be watching over yall.hugs and kisses Terrye and Bobby call if you need anything at all .
O'Connell Family
February 7, 2011
To the Banton Family,
Our deepest heartfelt sympathy is with you all. We did not know Scott very long but his positive attitude and fighting spirit will be with us all throughout our lives. His touch was far reaching. May he rest in eternal peace and may you find the strength in God and each other to help you through these most difficult times. sincerely,
February 7, 2011
You have our deepest sympathies. Scott embraced the challenges he faced with a great sense of humor. I loved how he made the most of his new baldness by dressing up as Kojak for Halloween, including his famous lollipop! He will be greatly missed but not forgotten. LivingStrong in his memory - The Jones family: Mary, Sam, Courtney, Jessica & Wyatt
Shelly Talley
February 7, 2011
David and I were sorry to hear of your loss. Scott will truely be missed.
Michele Welch Burke
February 7, 2011
I was so sad to hear that Scott had passed. He fought so hard and I admired him so much. I've known Scott since we were at Hermitage High School together. He helped me with a lot of real estate appraisals over the years. He truly was a wonderful friend. I am so sad that he is gone but truly believe he is in a much better place with no pain. Until we meet again my friend...God Bless You...
Gompers Family
February 7, 2011
Erika/Erik/Danielle: We want let you know that we are thinking of you in this difficult time. We feel very lucky to have become friends with Scott these past few years. He was a very special person with a huge heart and passion for life. We enjoyed watching our beloved Redskins with you and Scott and will cherish those good memories. The Gompers Family
Michael, Betty, Jessica & Ryan Sanfilippo
February 7, 2011
Erika, Erik and Danielle,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Candy Beck
February 7, 2011
Erika, I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm sure the love you share will keep you strong through this difficult period as well as your two loving children. My prayers are with you all.
Michelle Bowen
February 7, 2011
i first met Scott when i started working at Virginia Frist Mortgage at the beginning of 2004 and we used him exclusively as our appraiser of choice. we quickly grew a friendship, such a great person!! i was new to the business and always had tons of questions, no matter how busy he was, he would always take the time to answer my many questions or shoot the breeze. he was such a great fighter and am sad he lost his battle but am very happy he's no longer in pain!! Erika, Erik and Danielle, you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Brent and Josine Herndon
February 7, 2011
A strong human being who made a great impact on the people that knew him. He was a good man and I am happy to have had the chance of being his neighbor and his friend.
Paula Sahnow
February 7, 2011
Erika, Erik and Danielle,
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss…our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Paula and Billy Sahnow
February 7, 2011
Erika, Danielle and Eric
I know that my words can't take away the pain you are feeling right now but I just wanted you to know I loved and respected your dad for his devotion to his family, his quick wit, his inner strength and very much valued his friendship. I love you guys too and promise to be there for you.
David Rudolph
February 7, 2011
Erika, Danielle and Erik - your father and husband will be missed, by all of us. I think Heaven is a better place and Earth not as good when Scott left us for Heaven. Please try to remember during these difficult times that the Lord awaits us all, and we will all be together again, with no more pain.
Laura Southern
February 7, 2011
God will give you all strength at this difficult time.
Joan's church family at New Covenant Baptist Church will continue to keep you all in our prayers.
George Anas
February 7, 2011
Erika and Family,
I am so saddened to hear the news this morning. I know Scott put up a great fight but I also know that he's finally in God's hands and without pain. I had the absolute pleasure of working with him on the Milestone board of directors and I can tell you that his personality and keen sense of humor were a treat. May God give you strength and comfort always.
February 7, 2011
Erika
I spoke with Scott several weeks ago talking about grabbing lunch in the coming days. His optimistic outlook about life was incredibe and uplifting, putting so many issues into proper perspective. I look forward to seeing him in heaven for in my view he embodies the spirit of a true father and husband.
Kent Engelke
Barbara Wilkins
February 7, 2011
Erik and Danielle and Erika,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May God be your comfort and your peace during this hard time. We didn't know your Dad well but by all of the comments from others he seemed like a wonderful guy. Hang on to your great memories with him. We are here for all of you in the years to come. Our love and sympathy, Barbara, Wayne, Lindsay, Haleigh and Kylie Wilkins
Julie Lawson
February 7, 2011
To the Banton family--
So sorry for your loss--I know Scott will be greatly missed by everyone that knew him. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Just remember I am only a phone call away.
February 7, 2011
We will miss Scott so much and we are going to hold on to all our laughs and fabulous times! We love you all and are here to support you. God will give you strength, guidance and love. Hugs and love! Sonny, Missy & Fred
Mark Dunford
February 7, 2011
Erika & Family,
Scott was a fraternity brother,friend,and roommate of mine at VCU. I only saw a glimpse of his goodness. What a proud father and husband he was. I pray that God will comfort you now and always.
Kim Hunter
February 7, 2011
Erika, Erik and Danielle - we are thinking about you and praying for you during this time. Scott was such a wonderful guy and will be greatly missed. Please know we are here for you if you need us.
Love and Friendship,
Tom, Kim and Chase Hunter
Valerie and Jim Lask
February 7, 2011
Erika, Erik, and Danielle - Scott was a wonderful friend and neighbor. He was always so much fun to be around. He will be deeply missed!
Leif Gyllenhoff
February 7, 2011
Blanton Family-please accept our deepest sympathies and know that we have you in our prayers.
Gyllenhoff Family
Amy Fahed
February 7, 2011
Erika, Erik and Danielle: We all miss Scott very much. Your friends and family will honor his memory by surrounding you with love and support during these difficult times.
Mary McCullough
February 7, 2011
To the Banton Family....My thoughts and prayers are with you. Another gone too soon...I graduated from Hermitage with Scott, what a wonderful guy, you will be missed and thank you Scott for your service to our Country.
Mary Moran
February 6, 2011
Even though I didn't teach Scott, I knew him because of his sister, Debbie, and his brother, Kenny, whom I taught. He was such a nice young man at Dumbarton who came from a lovely family. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Linda Clarke (formerly Cousins)
February 6, 2011
I taught Scott in 5th grade. He was a remarkable and memorable young man. I remember his kindness and enthusiasm. My prayers are with all of his family.
Sue Sturtz
February 6, 2011
You, Danielle, and Erik are so fortunate to have memories of Scott as a wonderful husband and father. In the coming weeks, remember that your friends are only a phone call away. You remain in my prayers. Much strength and love to you.
Sara & Scott Emmens
February 6, 2011
Erika, Erik & Danielle: We will remember all the fun times we had with "Big Scott". He was a kind soul to everyone he met. You are an amazing and strong family. Miss Y'all:) With sympathy and prayers, The Emmens Family
Sally San Soucie
February 6, 2011
Erika,
Keeping you and the kids in my prayers...
Sally
Maribeth Singleton
February 6, 2011
To Scott's Family-
I was sadden to hear of your loss, my prayers are with all of you.
February 6, 2011
The legacy you will leave your family
is that you were a gallant warrior until
the end against a deadly enemy...cancer.
You truly never gave up but moved on to
a better place .My thoughts and prayers
are with your family at this time I know they will never forget you.I will
think about you every time I walk the beach in North Topsail where you lived
when you were in the Marine Corp.
Patty Howle
Steve & Donna Fleming
February 6, 2011
What a wonderful man that touched so many lives, we are so blessed to have known him. Erika please know that we will continue to keep you and the family in our prayers.
Lorraine Moore
February 5, 2011
Debbie & family,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your brother. My prayers are with you & your family.
Mike Hufner
February 5, 2011
It seems Scott and I were always rivals in life. I first met Scott in high school. He went to Hermitage and I went to Lee Davis. We later met up again through the fraternity circle at VCU, he was a loyal KDR and I was a Pi Kapp. In spite of it all, what a wonderful, wonderful guy. He will be missed
Teresa Duty
February 5, 2011
To Debbie you know Scott was like my little bro remember my dog butch and what Scott called him and how Scott would act like Ms. Griggs he may be gone but his kindness will always be here with us. I never imagined hearing that one of us from the neighborhood would be gone. I admit he was damn strong and lived his life fighting til the very end. I will miss Scott very much but I will always have my memories of chubby little Scott with that red hair and freckles.
Cindi Moore Obaugh
February 5, 2011
I am so saddened to learn another one of our '84 Panthers has passed way too soon. Scott was one of the kindest guys in our graduating class at Hermitage High. I remember his smile and what a great friend he was to all. Please accept my condolences as I keep Erika and the family in my prayers.
Keith Jasper
February 5, 2011
To the Blanton family,
I offer my condolences. Scott was a wonderful guy that I got to know through our time on the Hermitage football team. I can recall his enthusiasm, hardwork, and great laugh and smile. He will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Betty Southard
February 5, 2011
Joan, Kenny, Debbie and Erika,
Scott was a very special part of our Family and he will be truly missed.
Please know that all of you are in our thoughts and prayers and peace with you at this difficult time.
Love to all,
Betty and Nick Southard
Kenny Stein
February 5, 2011
Erika,
Through thine eyes I saw a Proud Husband, Father, Son and Marine. He brought great Pride and Honor to our whole family. My memories of him standing tall with his head high, shoulders back and flashing that great smile will last forever. . .
Kenny Stein
February 5, 2011
Ericka,
Through thine eyes I saw a Proud Husband, Father, Son and Marine. He brought great pride and honor to our whole family. My memories of him with his head high and his shoulders back and his great smile will last forever.
Bart Mitchell
February 5, 2011
To a Great Friend who has been an impression to all of us. We will miss you…
Jay Gardner
February 5, 2011
Erika & Family,
Please accept my condolences. I've known Scott since our summers of Little League baseball at Bethlehem through graduation from Hermitage High. There couldn't be a nicer guy. I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. May you find peace and strength during this difficult time.
Peggy Martin
February 5, 2011
Sometimes in life you are touched by someone who changes you...Scott did that in my and my children's lives and I am forever grateful...Noone was a stranger to him and he lived life to the fullest...Ours lives will be forever changed and he will be forever missed...Your friend forever...
Patricia Fleming
February 5, 2011
Uncle Scott, the memories I've shared with you have been some of the best times of my life. I have been blessed to have an uncle like you and I will miss you every day. I love you so much <3
Erika Banton
February 5, 2011
My life will never be the same. You will be missed so much. You were a wonderful husband, the best father, and a friend to everyone you met. I love you.
Rob Goode (HHS '84 & USMC Officer '88-'94)
Rob Goode
February 5, 2011
Friend, fellow Hermitage Panther and hard-charging devil dog Marine Corps Officer! You will be missed. You have so many friends out there who think the world of you.
Showing 1 - 60 of 60 results
9271 Shady Grove Road, Mechanicsville, VA 23116
Make a Donation
in Scott Banton's name
People and places connected with Scott
Recent Obituaries
Recent Obituaries
How to support Scott's loved ones
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief
Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.
Read more
Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read moreWays to honor Scott Banton's life and legacy
Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more
Sponsored