Selma L. Frazier

Selma L. Frazier obituary, Oklahoma City, OK

Selma L. Frazier

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500 Southwest 104th Street, Oklahoma City, OK 73139

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Selma Frazier Obituary

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Selma Louise (Stabel) Frazier daughter of George and Anna Stabel was born on June 3, 1938, in Higgins, TX. Selma passed away at the age of 87 years. She was married to Terry C. Frazier on October 28, 1956, and to this union four children were born. Together they raised their children to know Jesus. Selma later worked as a Cosmetologist for many years, outside of the home. Selma was dedicated to attending church, working with Mobile Meals, the Food pantry, LWML and Quilting for outreach ministry. She worked on quilts Monday-Saturday; resting on Sunday. She also worked on puzzles, Word Search and loved her yard and her flowers. She was a member of St. John's Lutheran Church, Moore, OK and lived loving Jesus Christ and for all to know about His saving grace. She loved cheering for the OKC Thunder.

Selma was preceded in death by her husband, Terry, her parents, George and Anna, sister, Mary Ann Durfey and brother, Albert Stabel. Survivors include four children: Zanna Walpus (Mark), Rhonda Tollers (Bret), Bryant Frazier (Sheila), Spencer Frazier (Tracy); 7 grandchildren, 7 great grandchildren, 1 great-great grandchild; 1 sister, Lena Carter; 1 brother-in-law, Greg Frazier (Roxie), cousins, nieces, nephews, extended family, friends and neighbors who loved her dearly. Selma will be greatly missed; she was a good and faithful servant. Thank you to all who cared for her.

Services will be held October 24th, 2025, at 2pm in the Resthaven Chapel with interment following in Resthaven Memory Gardens Cemetery. Donations may be made to the Quilters St. John's Lutheran Church, Moore, OK or charity of choice.

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Upcoming Events

Oct

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Celebration of Life

2:00 p.m.

Resthaven Funeral Home & Memory Gardens

500 Southwest 104th Street, Oklahoma City, OK 73139

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