Sharon Karlene Lavy

Sharon Karlene Lavy obituary, Santa Fe, NM

Sharon Karlene Lavy

Sharon Lavy Obituary

Sharon Karlene Lavy 

February 15, 1944 – June 21, 2025

Sharon Karlene Lavy, a beloved mother, grandmother, and award-winning quilter, passed away peacefully on June 21, 2025, in Albuquerque, New Mexico, at the age of 81.

Born on February 15, 1944, Sharon lived a life full of love, creativity, and devotion to her family. She was preceded in death by her husband, Arthur Lavy, in 2020, and now joins him in eternal rest.

Sharon is survived by her four children: Kelly Lavy of Los Alamos, Lawrence Lavy (Tammie) of Los Lunas, Jason Lavy (Sara) of Albuquerque, and Matthew Lavy (April) of Española. She was a proud and deeply devoted grandmother to Robert, Loni, Madelyn, Kristin, Blake, Bryce, Alannah, and Lawson—each of whom brought immense joy and meaning to her life.

A talented and passionate quilter, Sharon won Grand Champion honors in the state of New Mexico for her exceptional craftsmanship. Sewing and quilting were not just hobbies for her, but a lifelong expression of love and artistry. Her quilts were treasured gifts, stitched with care and filled with stories.

Her family finds comfort in the words of “Footprints in the Sand”:

“My precious child, I love you and will never leave you… When you saw only one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you.”

Sharon’s warmth, creativity, and unwavering love for her family will be deeply missed but fondly remembered by all who knew her.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

People and places connected with Sharon

Make a Donation
in Sharon Lavy's name

How to support Sharon's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Sharon Lavy's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more