Shirley J. Carson

Shirley J. Carson obituary, Parsons, KS

Shirley J. Carson

Shirley Carson Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Forbes-Hoffman Funeral Home of Parsons on Sep. 7, 2024.

Publish in a newspaper

Shirley J. Carson, 61, of Parsons, dearly loved mother, grandmother, daughter, sister, aunt and friend, departed this life at 1:56 p.m., Thursday, September 5, 2024, at Freeman West in Joplin, Missouri.
Shirley Jean Spencer was born on February 4, 1963, to Ernest Cloyce and Florence Ione (Meeks) Spencer in Parsons, Kansas. She grew up and attended grade school and high school in Altamont.
On November 4, 1978, Shirley and Ed Carson were united in marriage in Mound Valley, Kansas. The couple had three children. After 30 years of marriage, the couple separated. For most of her children's youth, Shirley was a homemaker. She later worked for Parsons Precision Products, TasteeFreeze, Taco Mayo and Country Mart. She was adored by all that knew her. She devoted her life to caring for others. Her children and grandchildren were her world. She always had a smile on her face and had a cheerful laugh that was infectious.
She is survived by her three children, Donna Carson (Bryan) of Parsons, Kansas; Christopher Carson of Wichita, Kansas; and Samantha Carson of Wichita, Kansas; nine grandchildren, Chandler Stinson (Emma) of Oceanside, California; Austin Palmer of Augusta, Kansas; Kirstin Carson (Jake) of Parsons, Kansas; Kaden Sells of Parsons, Kansas; Tucker Myers of Parsons, Kansas; Hevyn Palmer of North Carolina; Ryker Trotnic of Parsons, Kansas; Lily Chavez of Parsons, Kansas; and Adelynn Carson of Wichita, Kansas. She loved spending time with each and every one of them. She was always on the go, made the best of whatever the situation and always kept a smile on her face.
Additionally, she is survived by her mother, Ione Spencer, of Parsons, Kansas; four brothers, William "Bill" Spencer (Denise) of Altamont, Kansas; Bob Spencer of Bartlett, Kansas; Randy Spencer (LeeAnn) of Altamont, Kansas, and Charlie Spencer (Renee) of Welch, Oklahoma; and long-time friend, Mark Trotnic, of the home.
She was preceded in death by her Daddy, Ernest Spencer; three brothers, Merle Spencer, Marvin Spencer, and Ricky Spencer; and three sisters, Evelyn Spencer, Gerri Stotts, and Pam Spencer.
The family will receive friends from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m., Friday, September 20, 2024, at the Forbes-Hoffman Funeral Home in Parsons.
Memorials are suggested to defray final expenses. Checks may be made payable to Forbes-Hoffman Funeral Home. Memorials may be left at or mailed to Forbes-Hoffman Funeral Home, P.O. Box 374, Parsons, KS 67357.
To plant Memorial Trees in memory of Shirley J. Carson, please click here to visit our Sympathy Store.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

How to support Shirley's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Shirley Carson's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more

Sign Shirley Carson's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?