Shirley E. Garver

Shirley E. Garver obituary

Shirley E. Garver

Shirley Garver Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by B.L. Bush & Sons Funeral Home - Camillus on Sep. 12, 2025.

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Shirley Elizabeth Garver, 78, a 52-year resident of Skaneateles, NY, passed away on Thursday, September 4, 2025, surrounded by her loving family and friends, following a courageous four-year battle with pulmonary fibrosis. She was born in Sayre, Pennsylvania, on December 11, 1946, a daughter of the late Robert and Evelyn (Hottenstein) Yonkin of Dushore, PA. On September 9, 1967, Shirley married her devoted husband, Steven Garver. Together, they shared 58 wonderful years of marriage and raised three beloved sons: Michael (Kimberlee) of Canastota, NY; Alan (Megan) of Hopewell Junction, NY; and Andrew (Kristi) of Concord, NC. Shirley's greatest pride and joy were her nine grandchildren: Grace, Katherine, Robert, Lily, Gavin, Jaxson, Eli, Liam, and Bowen. She cherished every moment spent with them and created countless memories during family holidays, gatherings, and summer vacations. Shirley graduated from Sullivan County High School in Dushore, PA, and later from Cayuga County Community College in Auburn, NY. She worked as an executive secretary during her career, serving with the Pennsylvania Department of Forests and Waters in Harrisburg, Imperial Chemical Industries in Stamford, CT, and the Skaneateles Central School District. Although she found great satisfaction in her work, her most meaningful role was that of homemaker, caring lovingly for her sons and later doting on her grandchildren. The family enjoyed many summers camping, swimming, and hiking in the Adirondacks, a tradition that created life-long bonds and treasured memories. In addition to her family and career, Shirley was a gifted and prolific crafter. She excelled in the fabric arts, creating beautiful quilts, wall hangings, draperies, clothing, and holiday decorations that continue to adorn the homes of family and friends. Her passions also included gardening and cooking. Her artistry and creativity enriched the lives of those around her. Shirley was an active and dedicated supporter of the Alliance Church in Auburn, NY, where she worshiped faithfully and developed many lasting friendships. Her quiet strength, kindness, and generosity of spirit left an indelible mark on her church community as well as all who were blessed to know her. She is survived by her husband, Steven; her three sons and their families; her sister, Carolynn (Fred Fuller) of Dundee, NY; two brothers, Joseph Melvin (Joanne) Yonkin of Towanda, PA, and William (Emma) Yonkin of Dushore, PA; and many nieces, nephews, cousins, and in-laws. Shirley will be remembered as a devoted wife, loving mother, adoring grandmother, and loyal friend. She will be deeply missed by all who knew her. Arrangements and cremation handled by B.L. Bush & Sons Funeral Home of Camillus, NY. Please sign her guestbook at www.BLBUSH.com

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