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Shirley Onderdonk Obituary

Shirley H. Onderdonk

Shirley H. Onderdonk, 90, passed away on Thursday, June 12, 2025, at Bickford Senior Living, Suffolk, Va.

Shirley graduated from Falmouth High School in 1952, and from Mary Washington College in 1985 with a degree in Music. She was a piano teacher for 30 years and the Organist and Choirmaster at St. George's Episcopal Church (1969-1981), Aquia Episcopal Church (1986-1991), and Organist at Fredericksburg Baptist Church (1991-2014). Shirley was a proud member of Fredericksburg Baptist Church as a Deacon, Handbell Choir Director, Maranatha Choir Chaperone, Mission Activities, and Sunday School Class participant.

Shirley's hobbies consisted of painting, which adorn many of her family and friends' homes, needlework, and travel.

Those left to cherish her memory are her son, David C. Onderdonk of Milford, Va.; daughter Kathryn L. Perlewitz (David) of Suffolk, Va.; loving grandchildren, Stephen H. Kerr of Norfolk, Va., Clay Onderdonk of Baltimore, Md., and Leah Wood (Marshall) of Lovettsville, Va.; nephew, Craig Hedrick; and niece, Sara (Hedrick) Lile (Adam).

Shirley was preceded in death by her husband, George Carlton Onderdonk; parents, Elmer C. and Bessie C. Hedrick; brother, Charles C. Hedrick; and daughter, Susan E. Onderdonk.

The family will receive friends from 5 to 7 p.m., on Friday, June 20, 2025, at Covenant Funeral Service, Fredericksburg. A Memorial Service will be held at 11 a.m., on Saturday, June 21, at Fredericksburg Baptist Church, followed by reception in the Social Hall.

In lieu of flowers, gifts may be given to the Organ Restoration Fund or other Ministries of the Church.

Online guest book is available at covenantfuneralservice.com.
Published by The Free Lance - Star on Jun. 18, 2025.

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Ronnie Knotts

June 24, 2025

Such a sweet lady to Kathy and David

Bobby lee

June 18, 2025

I have know Shirley for over 60 years. Been involved with her and her family in music and scouting programs many times during those years. She was always kind, nice and very helpful and professon in all that she did. Her family was a blessing as well. God bless David and Kathy

Robert S Belman

June 18, 2025

Condolences to David, Kathy and family. Rest In Peace Mrs Onderdonk.

Malcolm L. Taylor

June 18, 2025

Condolences David to you and family.

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