Stanley Griffin

Stanley Griffin obituary

Stanley Griffin

Stanley Griffin Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Carmen F. Spezzi Funeral Home on Aug. 25, 2025.

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Stanley Griffin passed away at home, surrounded by his loving family, on August 25 He was born November 1, 1937 in Metuchen to Stella (Arasimovich) and Charles Griffin. He lived in South Amboy for many years with his wife Mary before moving to Point Pleasant in 1998.

At 16, he joined the Marines 22nd battalion, 2nd division from 1954 to 1957, where he was stationed as a mortar instructor to 2nd lieutenant Marines at Quantico, Va. After leaving the Marines, he worked at Hayden Chemical in Keasbey before entering his life work as the general manager of 21 stores on the east coast for DSS Inc., (Performance Centers of America, the suppliers of the company, closed in 1996. He then became the assistant manager for Mackay ice arena in Englewood. He also was a regional sales manager for American Auto Inc. and Monmouth Truck Equipment. In his retirement, if you could say that (as he never stopped) he worked at Carmen Spezzi and Maliszewski funeral homes. He was a great handyman who could fix just about anything.

He was an avid skier, Marathon runner and baseball player, playing baseball for the Anchor Cafe in Perth Amboy, who, in their heyday, were the Molson Ale champs against Canada. His job at DSS enabled him to travel to the many NASCAR races throughout the country, meeting racers like Richard Pettv and Dale Earnhardt. He was also a scuba instructor for N.A.S.D.S. And traveled the Caribbean with Mary to reset his clock.

As a proud Irishman, he was a Founding member of the South Amboy Ancient Order of Hibernians, David B. Kelly Division. He was a member of the John Basilone Marine Division and a Point Pleasant Zoning Board member for 7 years.

He was predeceased by his parents Stella and Charles, his siblings Charles, Pola and Susie.

He will be profoundly missed by his wife of 40 years, Mary Casey Griffin and his son Michael, who was his caretaker. He is also survived by his daughters Donna Coffman and Barbara Griffin, his grandchildren Shawn, Michael and Christopher, and his great grandchildren Logan and Greyson.

Calling hours at the Carmen F. Spezzi Funeral Home, 15 Cherry Lane, Parlin will be Friday from 3:00pm to 7:00pm with a prayer service at 6:30pm. A private cremation will follow.

If you choose to donate in his honor, please consider St Peter's Church, Point Pleasant Beach or Point Pleasant Boro 1st Aid Squad.

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September 6, 2025

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August 26, 2025

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Lisa Mary Van Doren

September 6, 2025

On my Uncle Stash ... how deeply saddened I am. May your sisters and brother, Suzie, Pola and Charlie all find peace now that you have arrived. And dearest Mary, thank you for being there. With all my love - Your niece, Lisa Van Doren.

Cynthia Livingston Casement

August 26, 2025

My heartfelt condolences to Mary and Michael on their loss. May Stan rest in eternal peace..

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