Stephen Elmer Gottschalk

Stephen Elmer Gottschalk

Stephen Gottschalk Obituary

Published by Star Tribune from Mar. 7 to Mar. 9, 2008.
Gottschalk, Stephen Elmer beloved son, husband, father, and grandfather died March 6, 2008. Born October 9, 1947 in Rochester, Minnesota, he honored each day of his life with integrity and fought hard to stay with those he loved so well. Survived by loving wife Lorilyn; children, Andrew (Erin), Stephanie (Dave), Lorissa, Michael; grandchildren, Jonah, Bryce, Madeline, Grace, Greta; siblings, Gary, Bruce, Nancy; and parents, Ruth and Elmer. Steve graduated from Valparaiso University and its law school. He offered his gifts as a partner at Dorsey & Whitney for 31 years as well as numerous volunteer activities. He held multiple offices at St. Peter's Lutheran Church and School, AMICUS, Trinity First, and served on the Board of Directors for Habitat for Humanity of Minnesota. He was a humble man of sincere faith in God and held deep appreciation for all creation including people, music, knowledge, and the earth, especially the Boundary Waters. Memorials preferred to St. John's Episcopal Church-Haiti Project (www.stjohns-mpls.org/haiti), Habitat for Humanity (www.tchabitat.org) or Gift of Life House (www.gift-of- life.org). Memorial service 2:00 pm Monday, March 17 at St. Mark's Episcopal Cathedral, Minneapolis. Steve's most famous phrase, and advice to the world, is "Don't forget who loves you." We never will.
This obituary was originally published in the Star Tribune.

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May 18, 2008

Lili Korbuly posted to the memorial.

March 17, 2008

S. Dan Anderson posted to the memorial.

March 17, 2008

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Lili Korbuly

May 18, 2008

Dear Mrs. Gottschalk, Stephanie, Lorissa, Michael and Andy,

I know it's been at least 15 years since we've been in touch, but the Korbuly family would like to extend its support to you in this incredibly painful time. While my parents were in town this weekend for a quick visit, they learned about your loss through a friend/former neighbor.

I (Lili) remember Mr. Gottschalk mowing the lawn, painting the deck, spending time with his family outdoors...gosh, it was in the '80s but it could've been yesterday!

I really regret that we fell out of touch, but please know that Kathy, Steve, our parents and I all send you our support (from Minnesota, Florida and Connecticut). I hope we see each other again in the near future. God bless you all.

S. Dan Anderson

March 17, 2008

Steph,
So sorry to hear of your dad's passing.

Kind regards,

Jeff and Mollie Dale

March 17, 2008

Our thoughts and our prayers be with you and your family.

Joyce Marrie

March 12, 2008

Dear Lori and Family,

My prayers are with you in this time.
May God give you his loving strength and carry you through this time.

Lu Gronseth, Jr.

March 12, 2008

Dear Lori and Family,
We will all miss Steve. I am so glad for the opportunity to reunite over lunch several times this past year. It was great to get caught up on Steve's life and hear about the wonderful family you have. It was obvious that you were the most important people in his life. I look forward to that day when we will be reunited forever with the Savior.

David Congdon

March 12, 2008

Dear Lori and Family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. You will always be family to us, and have been for more than 40 years now. We have truly enjoyed all the times with you from before you both met through your planning your family. You have had a triumphant struggle and have contributed significantly to the world, and we are all the better for it. We continue to be there for you for whatever we can offer. See you next week.

Peace,

David and Kristin

Chuck Spomer

March 12, 2008

Dear Lori and family, Steve was a fine man and a mirror of Christ already at CA. The Lord's promise of resurrection is our confidence in such a great loss. Blessings.

ward brehm

March 12, 2008

Dear Lori and family,

Steve was one of the most competant and faithful members of the downtown business community and will be sorely missed.

He was also a great competetor on the squash courts and demonstrated character and determination in everything he did.

All of these characterisitcs were demonstrated as he "fought the good fight" against his ilness with both courage and grace.

He is now with God and I pray for the "peace that surpasses all understanding" for you and family.

shalom

ward brehm

Linda Masse

March 11, 2008

Michael,
My sympathy to you and your family for the loss of your father. Wishing you comfort as you honor and remember his life and your many wonderful memories of him.

Kris Loebertmann

March 11, 2008

Michael-
My prayers include you and your family. I never met your father; however the descriptions people are providing of him paint the picture of a wonderful heartfelt man that shared all of his characteristics with you. God Bless

Paul Otte

March 11, 2008

Please accept my sincere sympathy on the loss of your husband and father. He was one of the finest men I've ever met. He never had an unkind word to say about anyone, and was filled with words and songs of praise to his Maker and Savior. We are all richer to have known him.

March 11, 2008

Dear Gottschalk Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Betsy Snyder

Tom (Alfy) Neumann

March 10, 2008

I was deeply saddened to hear of Steve's death. I am so glad I was able to spend some time with him a couple years ago when I was in Minn. for a family time. Steve was a good friend and classmate at CA. He is missed. I look forward to a reunion in heaven with Jesus.

Ricardo Bruno

March 10, 2008

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Laine Anderson

March 10, 2008

Bruce,
I didn't know your bother, but if he was half the man that you are I'm sure he will be sadly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family.
Laine

Mary Kosidowski

March 10, 2008

What can a person say? Words seem inadequate. I am sorry for your loss. May our Lord be with all of you. May He keep you in His Hands during this tims of loss and sorrow. My memories are all of many years ago and being cousins in a huge wonderful family. I will forever keep them in my heart. My Love and Thoughts are with you.

Jeff Bird

March 10, 2008

I've know Steve professionally for many years, and have always been impressed with his integrity and gentle spirit. I was saddened to hear of his passing, but rejoice in the confidence of his faith in God. May the Lord comfort you as you cherish the many memories, and grieve the loss of this wonderful man.

Doug Quade

March 10, 2008

Andy/Erin, your entire family are in our thoughts and prayers. Doug, Janece and Katelynn Quade

Alex McKinney

March 10, 2008

Michael and Gottschalk family,

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers

Marion Solie

March 10, 2008

Dear Lori and family:
I was so sorry to hear of your loss but rejoice in Steve's victory. May God wrap His loving arms around you and give you His peace that passes all understanding. If I can be of help, please feel free to give me a call. God's blessing to you all.

Ralph Bistodeau

March 10, 2008

Ralph W. Bistodeau

Kathleen Hannan

March 10, 2008

Dear Bruce,
"Brotherly love", timeless, but ever present in the way I heard you speak of your brother. May your memories help soften your sadness. My condolences to you and your family.

Melanie Sorensen

March 9, 2008

Your dad was such a kind man. I have fond memories of him cheering us on at track meets, sailing at the cabin and meals in your home. Your family has been a blessing to me and his smile was unforgettable. Your family will be in my prayers.

John and Sandra Peters

March 9, 2008

Lori was one of the first people I met so many long years ago as freshmen at Valparaiso University. When Lori met Steve, we knew what a very special couple they would be, and we were right. Although years and miles have separated us, we have treasured those VU bonds and memories. Our hearts go out to Lori and family, but we thank God that he has given Steve a new and wonderful life with Him. We will continue to keep you in our prayers.

Karen and Dick Schneeberger

March 9, 2008

Dear Lori and all the Gottschalk family,
Our heartfelt prayers to all of you as we grieve the loss of Steve. What an incredible role model he was with his gentle but firm manner,his strength and fortitude as he fought this disease with all his heart and might and his ever constant love and care for his family. He will be sorely missed by all.

Allen Weisz

March 9, 2008

As we go through life, we are blessed to meet people that provide a true example of how to live - with dignity, faith and true leadership. Steve was a true life leader. Prayers for family and friends - Steve will be missed, but his positive impact on all of us will endure.

Richard Gottschalk

March 9, 2008

I had an opportunity to visit with Steve and Lori a few years ago when they were staying in the Gift of Life transplant house as Steve was undergoing treatment. I walked away that afternoon with a deep admiration for both of them - Steve, such a gentle and kind-hearted man and Lori, the loving and consummate caregiver. They were both so lucky to have found each other so early in life and to have shared so much of themselves with each other and their family. I think it's rather appropriate that God chose the month of March to bring Steve home. March is when we break the shackles of winter and our world awakens in its springtime glory. I have a pretty good hunch that right now Steve is smiling as he's finally broken free of his disease and is rejoicing in his eternal springtime up above. He was a good man and you can see the legacy he left behind in his family.

Richard Gottschalk

March 8, 2008

I had an opportunity to visit with Steve and Lori a few years ago when they were staying in the Gift of Life transplant house as Steve was undergoing treatment. I walked away that afternoon with a deep admiration for both of them - Steve, such a gentle and kind-hearted man and Lori, the loving and consummate caregiver. They were both so lucky to have found each other so early in life and to have shared so much of themselves with each other and their family. I think it's rather appropriate that God chose the month of March to bring Steve home. March is when we break the shackles of winter and our world awakens in its springtime glory. I have a pretty good hunch that right now Steve is smiling as he's finally broken free of his disease and is rejoicing in his eternal springtime up above. He was a good man and you can see the legacy he left behind in his family.

Mary Livingston

March 7, 2008

We send our condolences and sympathy to Ruthie, Elmer, and Steve's family. He was a wonderful and kind person who will be missed by all who knew him, and will always be alive in our fond memories of him.
Bob and Mary Livingston

Paul Krentz

March 7, 2008

Lori, Stephanie, Andy, Loriss and Michael

Just happened to see this on the Star-Tribune website. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Your husband and dad, Steve, was a fine Christian man. You are in our prayers. Paul, Becky, Jennifer and Mike

Richard Thurley

March 7, 2008

My prayers are for the Gottschalk family. Steve was a fantastic cousin and I will always remember him.

Mark Krueger

March 7, 2008

May God grant you comfort in this time of sorrow for you. I'm very sorry for your loss.

Bob Hansen

March 7, 2008

Mike,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this time of grief. May the memories of your Dad bring you comfort. May God give you strength at this time.

Nicole and Nathan Pelowski

March 7, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Beth Solie Phelps

March 7, 2008

Dear Lori, Andy, Stephanie, Lorissa & Michael,
I'm saddened to learn of Steve's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you and your families during this difficult time. His commitment to his family provided an example for all to follow. He will be missed.

Jane & Dick Pettit

March 7, 2008

He was a wonderful cousin, an outstanding community member, a warm and caring dad, a loving husband, and an exemplary Christian. Our condolences to Steve's family - he will never be forgotten. Jane and Dick Pettit

Craig Cooper

March 7, 2008

Elmer and Ruth...Jody and I are praying for you and your family during this difficult time that the hope we have in the resurrection will bring you strength to get through the day.

Carolyn Nestingen

March 7, 2008

I knew Steve professionally and had enormous respect for him. He was courageous in his battle against this terrible disease, which took a cousin of ours two years ago. May God walk with you these next days and months.

Jean & Dan Pelowski

March 7, 2008

We will keep Stephen and his family in our prayers and thoughts as we fondly remember him. We have warm childhood memories to console us.

Rebecca Brower

March 7, 2008

Dear Gottschalk family,
Your dad was a wonderful, caring man. His smile and warm, friendly nature will always be remembered. Know that my thoughts are with all of you right now.

Diane & Dave Walter

March 7, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family during this difficult time.

Mark, Kristin, Krin Blegen, Schroeder

March 7, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

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