Special Warfare Operator CPO (SEAL) Stephen M. Mills

Special Warfare Operator CPO (SEAL) Stephen M. Mills

Stephen M. Mills Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 12, 2011.

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August 6, 2025

14 YRS, GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN
THANK YOU FOR THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE

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May 26, 2025

THANK YOU FOR THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE.
GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN.

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GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN.

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May 27, 2024

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THANK YOU FOR THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE.

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May 29, 2023

THANK YOU FOR THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE.
GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN.

Sandee Garza Schock

August 6, 2022

11 YRS, GONE NOT FORGOTTEN
THANK YOU FOR THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE

Sandee Garza Schock

May 30, 2022

GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN.
THANK YOU FOR THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE.

Sandee Garza Schock

August 6, 2021

10 YRS, GONE NOT FORGOTTEN
THANK YOU FOR THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE

Charlie Gili

May 31, 2021

Hello,
We realize that we are very late to express our deepest condolences, but we wanted to let you and your family and friends know that we have made a small donation to The Michael Murphy Navy SEAL Museum Fund to honor and remember Stephen Matthew “Matt” Mills US Navy Special Warfare Operator Chief Petty Officer (SEAL).

We recognize that this is a humble tribute, but we wanted you to know that it is heartfelt and made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals across the American youth hockey community and beyond. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.

Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign

Sandee Garza Schock

May 31, 2021

THANK YOU FOR THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE.
GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN.

Sandee Schock

August 6, 2020

9 years gone but not forgotten.
Rest In Peace.

Sandee Garza Schock

May 25, 2020

Thank You for the ultimate sacrifice.
Gone But Not Forgotten.

Sandee Garza Schock

August 6, 2019

8 YRS GONE NOT FORGOTTEN
THANK YOU FOR THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE

Sandee Garza Schock

May 27, 2019

Rest In Peace HERO
Gone But Not Forgotten
Thank You for the ultimate sacrifice

Sincerely

Sandee Garza Schock

August 6, 2018

Thank You for the ultimate sacrifice.
Gone But Not Forgotten

Sandee Garza Schock

May 29, 2018

Never Forgotten
Thank You for the ultimate sacrifice.

Sandee Garza Schock

August 6, 2017

GONE 6 YRS BUT YOU'RE NOT FORGOTTEN.
THANK YOU FOR THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE.

Sandee Garza Schock

May 29, 2017

Thank You for the ultimate sacrifice.
Gone But Not Forgotten.

Peggy Talley

August 8, 2016

Remembered. Always and forever. You and your brothers are never far from my thoughts and prayers. May everyone find comfort in the warrior you were. Blessings to your family.

Sandee Garza Schock

August 6, 2016

5 years Gone But Not Forgotten
Thank You for the ultimate sacrifice

shannon murphy

July 21, 2016

courageous service and a fearless leader from martin high school in arlinton texas a great place that has produced some hard core warriors
I thank you and your fellow team members sorry you did not come out of that last fight alive God be with you all
MHS quarterback 83,84

Sandee Garza Schock

May 30, 2016

GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN

Sandee Garza Schock

November 11, 2015

Thank You for the ultimate sacrifice. Gone But Not Forgotten.

Thomas McGuire

September 11, 2015

Stephen, You gave your life and service to us, i salute you and
your fellow warriors today, and pray for healing and comfort to
your families, and may God rest your souls.

Sandee Garza Schock

August 6, 2015

Gone But Not Forgotten
Thank You for the ultimate sacrifice

Sandee Garza Schock

May 25, 2015

Gone But Not Forgotten
Thank You for the ultimate sacrifice

Sandee Garza Schock

November 11, 2014

Thank You for the ultimate sacrifice.

Peggy Talley

August 8, 2014

You are in my hearts always. A hero, a warrior who gave all for his brothers. Your are greatly missed by many who never knew you. We honor you and your life. Blessings to your family.

Sandee Garza Schock

August 6, 2014

R I P HERO
Gone But Not Forgotten

Sandee Garza Schock

May 26, 2014

Gone But Not Forgotten
Thanks for the ultimate sacrifice

Charlie Gili

April 21, 2013

Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also let the Mills Family know that we recently sent Care Packages to American troops in the war zones. Each box carried a dedication sheet that includes the name, service information and a photo of your loved one. We recognize that this is a humble tribute, but we wanted you to know that it is heartfelt and made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals in the youth hockey community and beyond. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign

Maria Gavin

September 22, 2012

Seals are a special type of person. They put others before themselves. They are willing to give all everyday. I thank you for your service. You will not be forgotten.

Peggy Talley~~Soldiers' Angel

August 10, 2012

It was been one long year since you deployed to Heaven. I have remembered you and your sacrifice every day. I would like your family to know I REMEMBER. I have visited you in Arlington on 11-11-11 and 8-6-12 to honor your memory. God bless you Stephen and God bless your family.

Sandra Schock

August 7, 2012

Gone But Never Forgotten

Peggy Childers

August 6, 2012

To the family of Special Warfare Operator CPO (SEAL) Stephen M. Mills:
Stephen gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."

Curtis Glass

August 6, 2012

On this day of the 1 Year anniverary , I wanted to remind your family that Steve's sacrifice Has not & Will not be forgotten by my family & I . This Country seems to forget how Lucky we are to have the caliber of people that it takes to do what these men & women do & the families that raise them . God Bless our troops & there familes .

Debbie Elam

July 2, 2012

Together...We Will Not Forget...My name is Debbie Elam and I am the Chairman of the Virginia Memorial Quilt Project. Our group is making and presenting a numbered memorial quilt to the immediate family of each soldier killed in Operation Enduring Freedom, Operation Iraqi Freedom and the Global War on Terror with ties to the Commonwealth of Virginia. We have a website at www.vmqp.com if you get a chance to see the quilts. We have sent 207 quilts as of this date. Please contact me via email or phone at 804-598-0465 and I will get the information from you so we can send you a Memorial Quilt in honor of your soldier. Thank you.
Debbie Elam, Chairman
Virginia Memorial Quilt Project
P. O. Box 534
Powhatan, VA 23139

Debbie Elam

March 9, 2012

My name is Debbie Elam and I am the Chairman of the Virginia Memorial Quilt Project. Our group is making and presenting a numbered memorial quilt to the immediate family of each soldier killed in Operation Enduring Freedom, Operation Iraqi Freedom and the Global War on Terror with ties to the Commonwealth of Virginia. We have a website at www.vmqp.com if you get a chance to see the quilts. We have sent 179 quilts as of this date. Please contact me via email or phone at 804-598-0465 and I will get the information from you so we can send you a Memorial Quilt in honor of your soldier. TOGETHER...WE WILL NOT FORGET!
Thank you.
Debbie Elam, Chairman
Virginia Memorial Quilt Project
2621 Linbrook Drive
Henrico, VA 23228

Caitlin Gmitro

November 30, 2011

I know I don't and never will have the right words to say at this time of grieving. I don't feel adequate to be contributing to this. All I can say is thank you, though that will never begin to cover it. You gave you life, so that I can have mine, and the freedom to live it. You, every soldier, and every soldier's family and loved ones are heros in my eyes.

Gary Allain

October 10, 2011

SPECIAL WARFARE OPERATOR CPO (SEAL)
STEPHEN M. MILLS
You are my Hero may God keep you in his arms forever.

Toni Flamion

September 15, 2011

The past few weeks, I have read the hometown obituaries/bios of the brave young men killed in this incident. Individually they are awesome. As a team , all I can say is WOW! I have shed many tears over the stories I have read, especially the post by Matt's daughter Zoe on the Facebook Remembrance page. I will never forget their sacrifice.

Jon Brooks

August 27, 2011

From Arlington, TX, thank you Sir for your service. We are saddened by the loss of so many on August 6 and will forever keep your memories alive. We are now witnesses to you story Matt. Rest in peace.
The Brooks Family

Mara Mehaffey

August 25, 2011

Matt- I think of you and your family every day. Your memory will never fade. Thank you for being such a magnificent man.

Lynne Neibert

August 24, 2011

Prayer Shawls 4 Fallen Soldiers ([email protected]) is an organization with groups throughout the country who strive to send handmade prayer shawls and/ or lap robes to families who have lost a loved one in service to our country. Members of Trindle Spring Lutheran Church in Mechanicsburg, PA would like to honor your son and husband’s sacrifice and memory by sending our prayers and comfort through a shawl which we will mail to you. If you are interested, please contact me at [email protected] with the names and addresses and what they would like to receive. We will send them as soon as possible. Also, if you know of any other families who are grieving the loss of a loved one who died serving our country, please pass along my e-mail address, as our organization can no longer get family contacts through the military. May God bless you and comfort you in the days ahead. Sincerely, Lynne

Denise H

August 24, 2011

Thank you Matt. Blessings and comfort to your family.

August 24, 2011

God Bless your family for his sacrafice. Thank you
Adrianne H, Williamsburg

Shirley B

August 23, 2011

To Matt's Family
May it comfort you to know that millions appreciate your loved one, Matt. I pray God's blessing upon you, his family. Matt gave his life that we may be free to enjoy life as we know in America. Just as Jesus died for our sins, Matt also died that we may have a better quality of life. God bless you. I'm proud to be an American - I'm proud of our Military - I'm proud of Matt

An American Citizen

Ron Stroud

August 23, 2011

My deepest sympathy and regards go out to Matt and his family. Thank you for giving your life for the freedom we have in the United States. You are an American Hero and your place in History will always be appreciated by all. God Bless You and all you have given.

P Malone

August 23, 2011

A grateful nation thanks you! May God continue to be with your family during this difficult time.

Steve S

August 23, 2011

I did not know Matt, but appreciate the sacrifice he gave for this country. He is a true American hero. His sacrifice should never be forgotten.

For the Commander, Carroll R. Michaud

August 23, 2011

The Final Salute

“Brothers in Arms”, Military men and women down through the centuries, have traditionally exchanged “Hand Salutes” as a sign of recognition and as a way to render courtesy and respect one to another.

This “Hand Salute” is the last that we shall render to U.S. Navy Seal, CPO Stephen Matthew (Matt) Mills our Brother in Arms. To his family it symbolizes the love and respect that we have for Matt. And to Matt it is rendered as a symbol of honor and gratitude to thank him for the ultimate sacrifice he made for his country while opposing enemy forces in Afghanistan. No greater love is shown than a man lay down his life for another. Matt, you are a brave Navy Seal, a Patriot Warrior and a true Hero. With your passing, our Country has lost a National Treasure. We bid you a sad farewell. You will be dearly missed from among our ranks. Be at ease. Rest in Peace.

On behalf of the 1,307 military veteran Legionnaires of Lowe-McFarlane Post 14 of the American Legion in Shreveport, Louisiana, I extend our sympathies and our condolences to Matt’s family and loved ones.

Dennis N. Engdahl, Commander, American Legion Post 14
5315 S. Lakeshore Drive, Shreveport, LA 71109

A Military Mom

August 23, 2011

I did not know ths HERO but my prayers are with his Family and Friends. May GOD give you peace and strength. THANK YOU SIR FOR SERVING OUR COUNTRY

Jimmie and Ginny Clem

August 23, 2011

Lord we ask in your name to help this family through the tough times to come and may you give them the strength to be there for each other. May you keep a watchful eye upon them when they need your guidance. Much love to the Mills Family. God be with you and Matt was a real American Hero!

Matt Potter

August 22, 2011

I had the privilege of serving with Matt on the Kinkaid. He was one of the most principled and honorable men I have ever known. He also laughed easier than anyone I've ever known. I was shocked to see his name in the list of these casualties. He will be greatly missed by everyone who knew him. God bless you Matt and all in the Mills family

L Greene

August 22, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. May CHIEF PETTY OFFICER STEPHEN MATTHEW "MATT" MILLS rest in peace and you find comfort in knowing that he is. My thoughts and prayers are with MATT and your family.Thank You a True American HERO! ~GOD BLESS~

Melinda Plunkett

August 22, 2011

I was lucky enough to have met Matt once. I am forever thankful to say I knew a real American Hero. I pray for his family & friends. May god bless all of you.

J.T. Olson

August 21, 2011

Lord, I ask in your most holy name...to comfort Matt's family in this mournful time. I ask that he rests peacefully in your kingdom. I thank you, for giving my family the honor to have known him & his family. Lord, hear my prayer.

Jerome "Rome" Olson

August 21, 2011

Words cannot express my condolences enough. It was an honor & privilege to have known Matt & to have had him & his family as next door neighbors. May God comfort his family.

C. L. Walters

August 21, 2011

Matt, Thank you for your service to our country.
To Matt's family and friends, may the heavy burden on your hearts find joy in the memories of your warm and loving times with Matt. He will always be remembered, cherished, and respected for "All" he gave.

August 21, 2011

I will never be able to thank you and your fellow fallen comrades personally for serving and protecting our country, The United States of America, but I wanted your families to know how very much I appreciate them and I shall never forget. I shall lift you up in my prayers daily for peace.

August 19, 2011

Dear Mills family,
Our family grieves the loss of Stephen. A true hero. He will not be forgotten. We are humbled by his sacrifice and service. May the love of family and friends carry you through your grief. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
the K. Collins family of Colo. Sgs., CO

Sylvia Kroenwetter

August 15, 2011

Please accept my deepest sympathy
for the loss of your loved one and Hero Stephen, and my sincerest gratitude for his service.
God Bless you CPO Stephen M.
Mills...you will not be forgotten.

Renee Owens

August 14, 2011

Please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of your Hero and my sincerest gratitude for his service. The state of Texas mourns the loss of another of its sons. May God grant you peace and strength.

The Land of the Free, Because of the Brave

Proud aunt of a Hero
PFC Chase Edwards, USMC
KIA 06Apr2006, OIF

For the Commander, Carroll R. Michaud

August 14, 2011

The Final Salute

“Brothers in Arms”, Military men and women down through the centuries, have traditionally exchanged “Hand Salutes” as a sign of recognition and as a way to render courtesy and respect one to another.

This “Hand Salute” is the last that we shall render to U.S. Navy Seal, CPO. Stephen M. Mills our Brother in Arms. To his family it symbolizes the love and respect that we have for Stephen. And to Stephen it is rendered as a symbol of honor and gratitude to thank him for the ultimate sacrifice he made for his country while opposing enemy forces in Afghanistan. No greater love is shown than a man lay down his life for another. Stephen, you are a brave Navy Seal, a Patriot Warrior and a true Hero. With your passing, our Country has lost a National Treasure. We bid you a sad farewell. You will be dearly missed from among our ranks. Be at ease. Rest in Peace.

On behalf of the 1,307 military veteran Legionnaires of Lowe-McFarlane Post 14 of the American Legion in Shreveport, Louisiana, I extend our sympathies and our condolences to Stephen’s family and loved ones.

Dennis N. Engdahl, Commander, American Legion Post 14
5315 S. Lakeshore Drive, Shreveport, LA 71109

Henryk Zaleski USN-Ret

August 14, 2011

Fair winds and following seas shipmate. Your warrior days are now over and peace is yours.

Eleyse GRiffin

August 13, 2011

I pray your family will feel the presence of the Lord today and that you will draw strength and hope as you trust Him to be your comfort. We are blessed because of your loved one’s service to our country.

Joe & Laura Rodriguez

August 13, 2011

For everything you did and stood for I thank you. You are truly a hero of the United States Of America. Our prayers go out to your family.

L Greene

August 13, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. May SPECIAL WARFARE OPERATOR CPO (SEAL) STEPHEN M. MILLS rest in peace and you find comfort in knowing that he is. My thoughts and prayers are with STEPHEN and your family. Thank You American HERO!! ~GOD BLESS~ Kids make your DAD proud.

The S&S Schock Family

August 12, 2011

To the Family of Stephen M Mills
My deepest sympathy for the loss of Your HERO. May He Rest In Eternal Peace. May God give You comfort during this difficult time. Sincerely

SCOTT CHAMBERLAND

August 12, 2011

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

MacDaniel

August 12, 2011

I know there are no words to say at this time, except how sorry that I am. I truly feel your loss and pain. My thoughts and prayers are with you always. Stephen will never be forgotten.

For you every single soldier
Those who served so honorable
Your life was forever altered
While I’m home safe and free
I stand with grateful admiration
I stand respectful and so proud
I know I’m only a civilian
And I don’t even know if it’s allowed

But I salute you; allow me the honor
to salute you with permission let me say
Even though I hold no rank know that from my heart
My humble gratitude comes from the deepest part.
I salute you.

For those missing in action;
for those who didn’t make it home.
I know you’re in God’s presence you are not alone.
For every neatly folded flag;
for every shattered family
I will do the only thing I know to dignify your memory.

I salute you, allow me the honor
to salute you with permission let me say
even though I hold no rank know that from my heart
my humble gratitude comes from the deepest part.

I salute you.

I Salute You.


Suzanne MacDaniel - A Proud Aunt
Colonie, NY
SGT. David M. Fisher
KIA 12/1/04 - Iraq

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