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Stephen J. Williams

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Stephen J. Williams obituary, 1940-2025, Roanoke, IN

BORN

1940

DIED

2025

FUNERAL HOME

McElhaney Funeral Home – Roanoke Chapel

240 Crestwood Dr

Roanoke, Indiana

UPCOMING SERVICE

Visitation

Dec. 15, 2025

10:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m.

Roanoke First Brethren Church

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Stephen Williams Obituary

Stephen J. Williams, 85, of Roanoke, IN, passed away on December 5, 2025, Stephen was born to Virgil and Phyllis (Henderson) Williams in 1940 and graduated from Roanoke High School in 1958 along with his wife of sixty-three years, Sharon K. Williams, who survives him. He matriculated to Indiana University, and in 1965 he received his law degree, at which time he and Sharon returned from the Bloomington area to Roanoke, to raise their family there. Steve initially worked for Lincoln Bank & Trust Company. He entered the private practice of law in 1973 with Pichon & Williams. And in 1980, became a partner and pillar at Shambaugh, Kast, Beck & Williams, LLP. Throughout his career, which continued into his late seventies, Steve was a paragon of the estate and tax planning practice of law, combining an encyclopedic knowledge of significant parts of the tax law with an easy-going, straight-forward and genuinely simple approach to serving his clients and drafting documents. Steve cultivated innumerable deep friendships and accolades throughout his professional career, including as a fellow of the American College of Trust and Estate Counsel.Steve was also generous with his talents, time and service: he served for more than thirty years as a trustee of Ashland University; he was a long-time elder of the Roanoke Brethren Church; he was a 55 year member of the Roanoke Lodge as a Freemason and a member of the Scottish Rite receiving his 33rd degree; and at various times he had served on numerous boards and organizations in the Roanoke area, including most recently the Roanoke Area Heritage Center. He was most recently recognized by the Huntington County History and Education Center as the recipient of the Virginia R. Miller Award for his contributions to the promotion of historical preservation and education in Huntington County.

It is impossible to do justice to all of the different elements of his one-of-a-kind personality, but we'll try anyway: he was a voracious reader; he loved history, and particularly the Civil War and even more particularly, Abraham Lincoln; he was an endless trove of jokes (many of which should not be repeated ever again) and stories about one of his professional mentors, Willard Shambaugh; he was a really accomplished woodworker and as a kid who grew up in his father's hardware store had every kind of odd screw or nut that you could ever hope to need; and there simply was not a way that you were going to out-work him. A graduate of Indiana University, he was a die-hard fan of the football program prior even to the Lee Corso era and is continuing, in eternity, to enjoy this moment. He installed a zipline for the pure enjoyment of his grandchildren and the extreme danger to his other party guests, and late every summer for the last twenty years or so he threw an epic summer birthday bash for his grandchildren. The party game and bounce house vendors will miss him dearly.

At the deepest center of Steve, he was a family man. In addition to Sharon, he is survived by his sister, Jill Law, daughters, Jennifer (Randy) Pickard of Roanoke, and Rebecca (Mark) Zakowski of South Bend, sons Nathan (Amanda) Williams of Roanoke and Benjamin (Carrie) Williams of Fort Wayne. And by adoring grandchildren: Jack Pickard, Hannah Williams, Reid Pickard, Bethany Williams, Allison Williams, Samuel Williams, Zachary Zakowski Katie Williams, Becca (Brandon) Helmick and Connor Zakowski. All of whom have come by their generosity, joy, stubbornness, warped sense of humor and work ethic honestly.

Calling hours are at Roanoke First Brethren Church, 415 S. Main Street, Roanoke, IN, on Sunday, December 14, from 2:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m., and Monday, December 15, from 10:00 a.m. to noon, with the funeral to be conducted following.

Private burial at a later date.

Preferred memorials are to Pathfinder Services, Community Harvest Food Bank, or Roanoke First Brethren Church.

Arrangements by McElhaney Funeral Home-Roanoke Chapel, 240 Crestwood Dr, Roanoke, IN.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Fort Wayne Newspapers from Dec. 9 to Dec. 12, 2025.

Memorial Events
for Stephen Williams

Dec

14

Visitation

2:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m.

Roanoke First Brethren Church

415 S. Main Street, Roanoke, IN 46783

Dec

15

Visitation

10:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m.

Roanoke First Brethren Church

415 S. Main Street, Roanoke, IN 46783

Dec

15

Funeral service

12:00 p.m.

Roanoke First Brethren Church

415 S. Main Street, Roanoke, IN 46783

Funeral services provided by:

McElhaney Funeral Home – Roanoke Chapel

240 Crestwood Dr, Roanoke, IN 46783

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Janet Hakes

December 11, 2025

Ben and family.. I am so sorry for your loss. Your dad was a wonderful man and my husband totally enjoyed working with him on our legal matters.

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Sincerely, Ashland University

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Lisa Okolish Miller

December 10, 2025

I served with Steve on the Ashland Board of Trustees. He was kind, patient, funny and smart. He was dearly missed when he chose to retire from the board. Thank you for sharing him with AU for those many, many years.

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Monet Blackburn

December 9, 2025

Oh Sharon , we are so sorry to hear about Steve´s passing. So glad we had such a nice visit with you both a few weeks ago. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help out.He will be missed . Sincerely Jim and Monet

Margaret Hobson

December 9, 2025

Steve was one of my favorite people!

John R Kowalczyk

December 9, 2025

Nate and Ben, my deepest sympathies. I know first-hand the loss of a lawyer parent/mentor. Always a professional to me, your Dad was one of the best.

Thomas A Swihart

December 9, 2025

Nate and Ben,Carol and I extent our sympathies in the passing of your Father.Steve was always pleasant and cordial over the many years I knew him as a practicing Attorney.You and the remainder of the family were so lucky to have Steve as the Patriarch.A genuine person who will painfully missed.

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