Steve A. Hartling

Steve A. Hartling

Steve Hartling Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Rausch Funeral Home - Owings on May 14, 2025.

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It is in a state of total devastation that we announce the sudden passing of Steven Anthony Hartling.
Steve was born in the Bronx, NY on January 17, 1977, and so leaves us at barely 48 years old. He attended school in the Lakeland School District a bit further upstate in NY, and then SUNY Oneonta, transferring to Salisbury State University in Maryland to complete his degree in Education. Steve served as a teacher and mentor to many students throughout the Maryland school system as a classroom teacher for 13 years, while continuing his own education by earning Masters degrees in Education and Mathematics. More recently Steve taught students from all around the state at the Camp Schmidt Outdoor Education Center, exploring the diverse ecology of the Chesapeake Bay. Steve was a naturalist, and always had a profound love of animals and the outdoors.
Steve is survived by his wife and soulmate Melissa Hartling, and their two sons Owen and Cole, as well as his parents James and Phyllis, brother James (Julia), sister Christine (Jason), sister-in-law Jenn (Rich), and father-in-law Skip. Steve was a loving uncle to Nina, Bryan, Julia, Henry, Madison, and Amelia, and was beloved by the entire extended family. Beyond the classroom and his work at Camp Schmidt, he was a football coach, a bartender in the community, a close friend and neighbor, and someone you could always rely on for a good laugh or a helping hand in a time of need. He will be remembered always.
A celebration of life will be held this summer. Details will be posted here and will be widely circulated, so please check back and keep our family in your thoughts and prayers.

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Leah Washington

June 18, 2025

This is so unreal for me. I´m now 30 and Mr. Hartling was my 5th grade teacher in elementary school. I had the pleasure of taking my son to camp Schmidt this school year and I ran into him. I´m sure he didn´t remember me but the way he embraced my hug when I ran to him made my night! Mr. Hartling was one of those teachers you just don´t forget. From the dedication he showed to the way he turned completely red when getting upset lol. You will be missed!

Lynelle Seebold

May 26, 2025

My condolences on Steve´s passing. His work at Camp Schmidt made the students´ experiences meaningful. He will be missed.

Beth Novick

May 22, 2025

Steve knew how to connect with students. Kids would run out the door to work with him because he let them do things no other adults would. He gave many of us the gift of his time, care, and knowledge. He built several pollinator gardens on our middle school grounds. Birds, bees, and butterflies are part of our community because of the work Steve did with students. I am grateful to have known Steve. He will always be a light in our lives.

Michelle Behnfeldt

May 20, 2025

My condolences during this time.

Jennifer Palmer

May 20, 2025

I am so very sorry to hear of Steve's passing. I worked with him for years at Camp Schmidt when I brought my student's each year. I also would run into him when I lived in Calvert Co. He was a dedicated teacher and environmentalist. My thoughts are with his family.

Greg Taylor

May 20, 2025

My deepest condolences to the Hartling family. Steve made every trip to Camp Schmit a great one for students and teachers. He touched so many lives in a positive way. You all are in my thoughts.

Owen C. Roberson

May 14, 2025

Melissa, I was so sorry to learn of the passing of Steve. He was always such a pleasure to talk with and see at 231 and at auctions. Of course you know I always had special feeling due to our friendship and of course having Owen as your son and we having the same name. Take care and hope to see you soon. Owen Roberson

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