Steven Paul Kokal

Steven Paul Kokal obituary

Steven Paul Kokal

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Steven Kokal Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Burket-Truby Funeral Home Cremation & Alternative Services on Dec. 6, 2025.
Steven Paul Kokal, aged 41, of Mars, PA, passed away on November 13, 2025, in Southampton, England. He was born on May 11, 1984, in Pittsburgh, PA to Robert P. Kokal and Patricia A. Kokal (Gess).

He was a graduate of Mars Area High School (2002) and Westminster College (2006). He joined the United States Air Force in 2004, Serving at the 171st Air Refueling Wing. He deployed to Iraq, Qatar, Guam, and Alaska before being honorably discharged in 2010.

Steve was a voracious reader and gained a broad knowledge of many topics, often sharing this knowledge with those around him through interesting discussions and lovely stories. Steve particularly enjoyed linguistics and was always learning a new language. He was an avid lover of music including playing guitar and being part of a band during his time in Virginia. Steve developed an appreciation for the outdoors during his time with the Boy Scouts of America, where he earned the rank of Eagle Scout. He enjoyed learning about other countries and cultures, and was always open for the next adventure, making many close friends wherever he went. His adventures included sailing historic wooden schooners in Maine, supplying goods to Aleutian Islands, forest conservation with the Conservation Corps in Montana, coast to coast train trips and a transatlantic voyage on the Queen Mary II to England.

He is survived by his parents, Bob and Pat; brother, Adam and wife Katherine; nephews, Malcolm and Miles; partner, Jenn Keaten and her children Ainsley and Everly; as well as many aunts, uncles, cousins, and dear friends.

Family and friends are invited to the BURKET-TRUBY FUNERAL HOME, CREMATION AND ALTERNATIVE SERVICES, INC., 421 Allegheny Ave., Oakmont, PA 15139, from 4pm-8pm on December 12th, 2025, to reminisce and honor the life of Steve. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at St. Anthony's Chapel, 1704 Harpster St., Pittsburgh, PA 15212 at 9am on Saturday December 13th followed by a burial in the The Verona Cemetery, 11th St. and Pennsylvania Ave, Oakmont, PA 15139, and a gathering at John Anthony's at noon, 115 Center New Texas Rd. Pgh, 15239.

In lieu of flowers please make donations in his name to his former Boy Scouts of America Troop 400 of Mars, PA (www.marsscouting.org) or to your local Veteran's organization.

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Upcoming Events

Dec

12

Visitation

4:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Burket-Truby Funeral Home, Cremation and Alternative Services, Inc.

421 Allegheny Ave., Oakmont, PA 15139

Send Flowers

Dec

13

Mass of Christian Burial

9:00 a.m.

St. Anthony's Chapel

1704 Harpster St., Pittsburgh, PA 15212

Send Flowers

Only 4 days left for delivery to next service.