Terrence G. Lahiff

Terrence G. Lahiff obituary, Fairfield, CT

Terrence G. Lahiff

Terrence Lahiff Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Shaughnessey Banks Funeral Home - Fairfield on Mar. 19, 2025.
Terrence Lahiff, 72, of Fairfield, Connecticut, passed away on Tuesday, March 18th in the company of his beloved son Ryan Lahiff and his sister Virginia LaMacchia.
Terry was born February 17, 1953 in New York, New York, the son of Michael and Catherine (Tivenan) Lahiff.
Terry graduated from Mater Christi High School in 1971, then went to Queens College, where he earned a bachelor's degree in English.
Terry was predeceased by his parents, brother Michael Lahiff, sister Kathleen Frigo, brothers-in-law Robert Frigo and James LaMacchia. He is survived by his sister Virginia LaMacchia; his children Michael Lahiff (Ashley Lahiff), Katherine Weiss (Marshall Weiss), Ryan Lahiff, Conor Lahiff, Meaghan Allen, and Jake Lahiff; his grandchildren Isabella Lahiff, Gabriella Lahiff, Carson Allen, and Bodhi Weiss.
The family will remember Terry privately and ask that you keep them in your thoughts during this time.

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December 7, 2025

Susan Kater posted to the memorial.

August 31, 2025

Rick Vobis posted to the memorial.

March 24, 2025

Bridget Burnell Hugues posted to the memorial.

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Susan Kater

December 7, 2025

Just now learning of Terry's death. I worked with his sales team in Connecticut. He was very pleasant to work with and was much beloved by his customers. My deepest condolences to his family.

Rick Vobis

August 31, 2025

It is with great sorrow that I read of Terry's passing. He and I grew up in Astoria Queens as friends. We attended many dances at Matter Christi HS (I attended Long Island City HS) and played days upon days of Softball together in the summer vacation months (he was a very capable pitcher). In many ways he was the leader of our group of kids from the area. May you rest knowing that I till
I pass you will be fondly remembered as an older brother to one of the Astoria Boys and....yes I still remember us always beating the "Brooklyn guys" on the field!!! Rest well and in peace my friend.

Bridget Burnell Hugues

March 24, 2025

Terry,

I can't believe you are gone. You have been a rock to me these past few years with my mom, Myrna and then again with my sisters passing this past December. We had just texted this past Sunday, on the 16th, with you telling me to do the best I can. I am hoping that you are doing the same. Love you, cousin. Give my best to the family up in Heaven.

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